He loves to talk and askes question during sex but I am very occupied, what should I do?

Question

He wants to know how I feel, or how am I doing and all those little sex talks. but I am the quiet type, I prefer more of the body language than talking. The sex is really great but the talk is killing me. I don't know how to talk ( sometimes dirty ) during sex. .I know it sounds funny to some people but I think it starts to ruin my relationship. Please help.

Answer 1

Hello goldbaddy,

Supposedly that's what you need to do to communicate with your sex partner. He only wants to please you and be sure that you are getting some orgasms out of it too. Most guys can't tell if a woman is experiencing an orgasm or not He is a considerate lover. Most guys don't talk while they're having sex. They are concentrating on getting their nut, so maybe you need to start seeing them to get a full appreciation of a guy that is a considerate lover.

Other people really like their partners talking dirty to them while having sex, or at least to tell them how sexy they are and how much you are turning them on. It sounds like you don't really get off on that.

If it really bothers you so much, you need to discuss this with him, hopefully not in the bedroom. Tell him that when he talks to you in bed that it distracts your mind off having an orgasm. So, it would be better if he kept quiet during sex. You will need to re-assure him that he's doing a great job in bed. Maybe you can have a non-verbal sign that everything is cool, keep it up.

Good luck.

--Rick

Answer 2

lol...my wife does that. "You love this p*ssy, don't you!" I guess it's sexy, but I'm like you, I like to concentrate on business and keep the small talk to a minimum. But, she doesn't do it all the time...definitely not to the point where it's effecting our relationship so, I just play along. If it's really getting to you, I guess you could talk to him about it. I've got an idea that would be more fun though. Next time he tries to start a conversation while you're trying to get off, just grab him by the back of the head (assuming your facing each other), look him straight in the eyes, and in your most evil, exorcist voice tell him through grit teeth..."SHUT UP AND F*CK ME!"
That way, he gets a little bit of dirty talk out of you, you get your point across, and he shuts the hell up.
Be sure to let us know how that goes. :)

Answer 3

well just try as hard as you can to continue the the dirty talk and it does not ruin your relationship

Answer 4

This tactic is being used by him to distract himself from the climaxing to soon. Just grin and bear it.

Answer 5

Grab his butt and other body parts and ask him how does he feel. That will keep him occupied.

Answer 6

he talks during sex????


.....expect a coming out of the closet party SOON

Answer 7

practice with phone sex

Answer 8

That irritates me too just ignore him or kiss him so he can shut up.

Answer 9

keep his mouth occupied like making him eat that p*ssy cuz thats the way i do it i be concentraiting on that big dick i be riding i be like who daddy **** me i give my man a lap dance a head job and do many tricks on that dick cuz i luv sex i be like f*ck me hard and he makes me screams his name baby just keep yo man occupied he eats my p*ssy real good though i aint gone lie we **** everynite then he *** all ova my face whick i luv that cuz i eat *** but anywayz when me and him having sex he puts that big dick in me lord his dick so big he make me scream i be like ooh daddy f*ck me hard come on daddy

Answer 10

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