a woman approached you and told you that they were interested in some sort of relationship (casual encounters, date, etc.). What would your reaction be and would you accept the offer if given. Serious responses only.
2006-08-14 05:29:03 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello Renee25,
I would say you were like a dream come true. It takes a lot for a guy to make the first move, so if I girl shows some interest, that is taking care of a lot of work on the guys part.
Good for you. Have fun and happy hunting.
--Rick
2006-08-14 05:38:48 · answer #1 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its very refreshing to have a woman approach me with an offer for a date so, YES, I would accept. I wouldn't be threatened by that at all! An offer for anything like a casual 'hook up' would be very tempting but, I wouldn't accept that unless I knew the person much better. Too many bad things could happen in that situation. If a person that I have known for long while (i.e. friend from work, someone I've seen around campus on a regular basis, person in my condo. complex, etc) wanted a casual encounter with me, I might consider it but it still depends on the person and their lifestyle. For me, its best to get to know someone a little better. K? Peace!
2006-08-14 12:41:03 · answer #2 · answered by mauilvr98003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My thoughts would be that the woman has high self-esteem and confidence in herself. A definate plus. But there has to be a mutual attrection though the guy may accept anyway. Funny thing is my wife, well at the time we were friends asked me "Are you interested in starting a relationship?". I said yes and we are going strong ever since. I am sure the reaction will be positive and if not don't let it get you down. At least you tried which is more than what most people do. You can never go backwards and change something.
2006-08-14 12:43:35 · answer #3 · answered by Mark S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the woman and the relationship she offered. If she wanted a casual encounter definitely, otherwise I'd probably think about it.
2006-08-14 12:34:05 · answer #4 · answered by s v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is an attractive woman whos a type i will date, then yeah for sure ..... I will never turn a female down in an abvious way.. so if not what i want, I will have to deal with her offer in a polite and rescpectfull way.. but never refuse an offer right on spot..
2006-08-14 12:41:09 · answer #5 · answered by HOTsxyPROFdoc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find that girls are very agressive these days and I like it....it takes the guess work out of it. As much as girls like being approached by guys.....guys like to be approached by girls. If you know what you want.....then go get it. I've done casual sex, friends with benefits, ex girlfriends with benefits....it's all good as long as both understand its only sex and have no other expectations for a relationship.
2006-08-14 12:37:43 · answer #6 · answered by Tony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I thought they were mature and serious I would consider it depending on the quality of the individual. I think it is always nice to see a female be assertive.
2006-08-14 12:35:11 · answer #7 · answered by thumper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the personality of the person asking. Are they going to be a "fatal attraction" or not. I think I would want to find out a little more about this person
2006-08-14 12:39:07 · answer #8 · answered by Wally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would have to get to know her. I would like to know a person before I even try to go out with this person. Some boys wold probably say yeah, then have sex, then probably dump the girl. I won't do that. I will try to get to know her for awhile before I would try and do any of that stuff, but you have to get to know one another.
2006-08-14 12:35:04 · answer #9 · answered by Brandon S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would show them the wedding ring on my left hand and tell them that I am only interested in one woman - my wife. If she is someone I know pretty well and think one of my friends might hit it off with I would introduce them.
2006-08-14 12:34:56 · answer #10 · answered by kyrie_eleison_gr 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋