about 6 years ago i met this one girl. she was interested in me, and even lived with me for a short period of time. but at the time we were both young and i decided not to persue her, never had physical relations or any of that.
few years later she hooked up with a friend. time to time she would say something that would spark up the old feelings, but i tried my best to take it for what it was and move past them.
half a year ago they broke up and ive been seeing her around more. recently, i broke my silence about how i felt, it wasn't a straight forward approach.
i was more or less testing the waters to see if she still felt the same, but i think she's actually waiting for me to confess first. i'm not sure about that however, the feelings might be gone.
shes always been in the back of my mind, one of those things u think back to and tear yourself up. its unethical to date your friends ex, but this goes so far back... and she's been tryin to dig an answer out of me.. HELP!
2006-08-14 05:17:39 · 6 answers · asked by thatyoungfool 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
*note*
two days ago, we were hanging out as a group and there was something definitly "there"... i feel like i should come out and say it, but it's the fear that i might just be assuming that what was there a few years ago, is still here... i think she even hinted that by saying something along the lines. which she might also be doing because she wants to set that sense of urgency so i would juss come out and confess.
if it's really not there. then i dont want to make it more then it is right now. but should i really pass up this oppurtunity?
2006-08-14 06:00:43 · update #1
tell her how u feel, take the chance be a man do the right thing.
2006-08-21 18:15:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont u realise that even God is giving u hint about this girl by giving 2 chances already. If u think u can go ahead with ur life without wondering about 'what if we...' then by all means go ahead with ur life and forget about the pass but if u think once let go of the idea on pursuing this girl u will be wondering for the rest of ur life then take the chance right now...love is a risk but just remember if it doesn't kill u it will only gonna make u stronger..good luck to u
2006-08-21 21:53:03 · answer #2 · answered by ctmaryam_83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all it's not right to date your friends ex so y was your friend with you said you had lived with her first. and to answer your question yes you should tell her how you feel .you only live once go for broke the worst she could do is say no but it doesn't sound like she would go for it.
2006-08-21 07:06:47 · answer #3 · answered by Chana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask one of her friends who she likes and if she likes you go out for coffee or mabey dinner and then you can c where it goes from there
2006-08-14 05:25:34 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Does♥He♥Love♥Me♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste another second. Tell her exactly the way you feel.
2006-08-14 05:22:07 · answer #5 · answered by ABN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it. We are all behind you!!!
2006-08-21 21:31:56 · answer #6 · answered by Baby_Apocalypse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋