it seems like a few of my guy friends...who are like brothers to me...have been asking about me and my ex and seem to be coming on to me...should i even go there and risk the friendship?
2006-08-14 05:15:17 · 8 answers · asked by MsNic 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would figure if they comin at you then the friendship either doesnt mean much to them or it means enough that if it doenst work out yall can still be friends. go for it
2006-08-14 06:13:51 · answer #1 · answered by HUSTLER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nix the ex. There's a reason he's the ex. Backstepping usually leads to bad falls. With regard to the other guy friends, evaluate them individually: your feelings about them, how long you've been "friends", how much you value their friendship, their relationship status and history, their sexual history, etc. Put them into categories: NO WAY IN THE HELL-for those who you would never consider dating because you are simply not attracted to them in that way or you simply don't want to risk losing them as a friend; ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE-for those you feel an attraction to but aren't sure of but still they could have a chance; YES BABY YES!-for those that you always have really liked but never had the chance to go there with them.
Once you have them separated, feel them out to see if they are genuinely interested in you or just want to hit you up while you're vulnerable. Then go with your gut. Just be careful because it is mighty hard to go back to being just friends after you cross the line. Have fun and good luck.
2006-08-14 12:33:06 · answer #2 · answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is your choice, but I believe that one date or two cannot hurt a friendship. You may even find that you want them to be more than just friends. You will never now if you do not take the chance. Then if you decide that you can only be friends let that be the end of it. If they are truly your friends then they will settle for just your friendship.
2006-08-14 12:22:09 · answer #3 · answered by rkb12584 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u wanna give it a try then go ahead. But try to make sure that u'll be able to still be friends even if it doesn't work out.
2006-08-14 12:23:03 · answer #4 · answered by AfroSistah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go there if you want them. If you aren't sure, then no. If they are your friends, and you still don't feel you are interested in them after you know each other, then it's a bad idea to start anything. But if you kinda want one of them, then go for it :)
2006-08-14 12:21:02 · answer #5 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel a conection between you guys then go for it.
2006-08-14 12:39:04 · answer #6 · answered by Alyssa s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-14 12:22:33 · answer #7 · answered by kane011592 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, why not
2006-08-14 12:21:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋