telling my parents about my love!!!?

Question

I have never talked to my parents about girls.
i have had relations in the past but were not serious stuff now i am in love with a girl and we are committed.
i need to tell my parents about the girl. but i am facing a dilemma.
my parents prefer arranged marriage over love marriage any given day and since i have not spoken to them about any of my past relation and any gal in general so i am feeling a bit uncomfortable.

to make tha matters worse i had been telling them that i wont marry anybody as i never wanted to till i met this girl.

kindly give realistic and sensible solution and don't answer if you just want 2 points.

thanks in advance

Answer 1

The best way to do this is tell the truth.

Sit them down and tell them, you realize that you've always said you didn't want to marry, as you have dated girls in the past and have never felt like this is what you wanted.....until now. You have met a wonderful girl and you would like to make this commitment to her. You would appreciate their blessings on this, but if they can't do that, at least treat this girl of yours with decency and respect.

Now, wasn't that easy? :)

Answer 2

u dont need to get ur parents permission in order to marry the one u love
as long as u are a grown up and have ur own money all u need to do is just announce to ur parents ur decision.if they like it will be really nice if they dont they will just have to live with it
u dont have ti worry about them