I hate my parentsi dont like to hear whatever they talk.what should i do?(i cant say the brief history here)?

Answer 1

i think this is neither your nor ur parents fault... i think this is because of generation gap.. they dont understand you and you dont wanna understand their feelings.. YOU CAN CHANGE UR CLOTHS , UR TASTE , YOUR FRIENDS BUT U CANT CHANGE UR PARENTS.. so heres some tips to b a excellent daughter and am sure if u follow these tips they will love u too.. pls try once...

1. Look for what you might be doing that your parents do not like. Make a list. Likewise, identify what you are doing well. You'll want to keep on doing those good things, or do them even better.

Have a quiet discussion with your parents. Find a time when things are peaceful and calm, and ask them politely to hear you out. Tell them you want to explain something to them, and that you want them to listen before they respond.

2. Try and fix the problematic things. For example, if you don't show your parents enough love, make the effort every morning to give both of your parents a hug and tell them that you love them.

Explain that you understand that they are having a difficult time in accepting you as you now are, that you are still the same person they raised and loved, but with different feelings and thoughts

3. Spend time with your parents. Get close to them and be yourself around them. For example: Go to the mall and shop with them now and again, or ask your mom to go have a coffee with you at the nearest cafe.

4. Listen when your parents have something to say.

5. Do your best at school, in sports, or other endeavors, to give them opportunities to be proud parents.

6. Talk with your parents about things that concern you about your relationship - things that may be their fault as well as yours. Stay calm. The last thing you want is to have a fight. When both parties have decided what to solve, tell them you love them. Give them a hug and say goodbye. Then take a walk or something so your mom/dad will think about what he/she has just agreed upon.

Remind them that not everyone has the same interests, desires, or makes the same choices. Tell them that although you learned much from them, you have become your own person with your own preferences and feelings.

PLEASE NOTE:

Always think before you act.

Always stay calm and never shout. Shouting will lead to more shouting. Be easygoing.

EXCEPT ALL ABOVE TIPS...

Treat your mom or dad sometimes, as a gesture of love. Showing love to them will naturally bring more love in return.

Always be thankful when you receive something from your parents

I THINK THIS IS ENOUGH

Answer 2

Parents are people who made you .true that they did not choose you specifically as the choice was not in their hands . so was the csae with you. You know what a mother is ? a mother is the first god for any living being . While in te womb , whatever she ate was to feed you with her blood through your umblical cord . She breathed for you and her haeart pumped blood for you to develop all your organs and brain.she instlled in your brain( the hard disc the basic operting system with the help of which you started to feed through your mouth from her breast > how des th child does it immediatekly withiout being told or trained ? This why the Iidin culture considers her as the first God .and the father the second one ., then the teacher and lastly the general God ,
May be what te parents do or did is not acceptable to you or you hate their behaviour or style of living etc . Even if the child happens to be the child of a prostitute , she deserves the veneration of the child for what she did for the child .The very reason for aversion most of the emanates from the fct that the parents help the child to achieve something more and higher than themselves . IIf they have not provided for the child fecilities to learn and develop its personality to an extent higher than themselvs , the child would simply follow their footsteps snd adore them. but in cases wher they do something that evelevates the child's status and personality as every parent desires to do , some people who are ungrateful do not like to recognize the parents themselves . but most of th children do adore them. May be in some cases the parents compel tehchild to do something that te child does not like for soe reason or oteer . thei also happesand the child should understnd that he4 parents though wrong compel the child to accept or do something , that the child does not like because , they think tht what they suggest is best for the child ,It is the intention that counts . If on the otrehr hand the parents ar really bad as in some rare cases - very rare case , the child may deelop some hatred agint the parents .It may be right ;. but still it will e a very rare situation. in such a situation , the child might approach some clsoe relative or some respectable individual in the society for help advise the parents to take to the right path. If that is not possible , teh child may itself try to correct the parents and even if that is not possible and if th child is a major in age , can try to live independantly after due notice to the parents.
It is always better to avoid hurting the souls that made one .








































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Answer 3

plz read the whole matter.
no child hate there parents. i feel that udont like to do what they say. this the problem u face. u love to be independ. when ever they say any thing u tell them that u will try to do that.
but shall i tell u one thing once u do what they say then u will understand why they tell u to do all these. really yar try once. this is what i felt. but i dont know the atmosphere around u . how ur parents treat u and all. but as a friend i would like to say one thing what ever may be the situation for example u r so angry on any one just think of god this will work. this is what i do. have patients. think and take decision.have a great day. keep always smiling.

Answer 4

Ignore the people telling you that your a bad person for feeling this way. I'm not fond of my parents either. I know they did the best they could and they raised me the way they were raise. Sometimes...well a lot of the time that can be wrong. My father abandoned me for 3 years, and my mom disagrees with every decision i've ever made and has never been proud of me a day in her life, and I know they are both like that because of how they were raised. Just try to bear it until you are out of the house, once you are, you can call the shots for your own life. I know its not easy right now, but it will get easier. I'm sure they are trying though. They may also see a lot of them in you, and are afraid you are going to turn out like them so they are trying to turn that around.

Good Luck.

Answer 5

it happens with me also . i bang my head on the cupboard with a lot of force as u have to remove ur anger in some way or the other u can also join my team aor else make ur on way of removing ur anger but that does not mean u should hate ur parents coz rememer they gave birth to u and the scold u for ur own good and when u get angry just try to remember what all hey have done for u and how much they lov u

take care and dont get angry

Answer 6

This happens to so many children.
Either they do not have common sense or they will be quarrelling with each other at all times, even on some silly things.
We find educated brute and illiterate fools.
Instead of hating them, leave them to their destiny.
Mind your life. A day will come when you will be away from them.
After all life short, make it sweet.
Be deaf and dumb for some time.

Answer 7

Hey pragal this is Remo Ur parents won't hate u if they've given birth to u. I actually feel very worried since I'm gonna leave my parents and come to chennai to live in a hostel.

Answer 8

Sometimes just a smile on our face,
Can help to make this world a better place.
Stand up for the things that are right.
Try to talk things out instead of fight.
Lend a hand when you can, get involved this is good.
You can help to make a difference in your relationship.

Answer 9

Well, too bad they gave birth to you then.

Sounds like you don't appreciate what you have.

Too bad.

I bet lots of kids wish they had parents, maybe a computer to type on, food to eat, and a bed.

Maybe you should do without these things to give you some perspective, you selfish little person.

Answer 10

I know you hate your parents but you know it is not easy being one. It is very hard because you want to see your children grow up and do the right things but most often they go the wrong ways. But you know as parents it is hard to just let them learn on there own. Try to get along but you can always go your seperate way but they will always be there for u.