ok Im pregnant?

Question

how do i tell him i dont know how he feels about me ?!

Im 28 he is 35

I live in Uk him in Brooklyn

ok guys constructive advice would be good

whats happened has happend now i need some advice

Answer 1

Well Mary the thing is I mean sex is fun and we all enjoy it but you really shouldn't play if you can't raise a child with that person. I mean we all have needs but the bottom line is you play with fire and sooner or later it will burn ya. You gotta say hey look we are having a baby and understand that he may or maynot like the idea. He may or maynot like you. But that doesn't change the fact that you are going to have a baby together who needs two parents who get along when it concerns him or her.

Answer 2

being pregnant is a very emotional time for a female. its up to you weather to have the baby or not, every1 has the right of choice.
He did have sex with you and depending on how long you have been together you will have some idea how he feels.
Dont have the baby to keep him because being a single parent is hard but you should tell him, for support, if you have the baby im sure in a few months he will be able to see thay you are pregnant for himself.
Just tell him that you missed a period and that you have confirmed you are pregnant. there is no way to tell him that wont make you wont feel a little anxious or worried. Goodluck

Answer 3

You live in the UK and he lives in Brooklyn??? I think you're in a bit of a mess then, as he lives too far away for a start. If you don't know how he feels about you yet, why on earth did you leave yourself in the position (pardon the pun) to become pregnant in the first place?? I'm guessing that if you tell him, he won't want to know, although I hope for your sake this isn't the case.

Answer 4

Pretty much have to agree with the other answerers when they say - just tell him.
I'll be a whole lot worse if he hears from someone else and really, it's impossible for you to know where you stand or what's going to happen in the future until you've laid your cards on the table and fronted up to him.
Only after you hear his response will you know whether to keep the baby, whether he cares about you, whether he'll be there for you both etc.
Just be brave and get it out the way so that you can get on with your life. Good luck!

Answer 5

If u are keeping the baby than u should be honest with him, u know what as long as he is there for you and youre pregnancy thats all that should really matter, but if he dont than he is just like the rest of those dead beat dads, who dont care, so u shouldnt care either, itz hard but ull be able to handle it, i know i did w/out my sons father and i'm okay

Answer 6

Just sit him down and tell him straight up, i hope that you two are both mature enough to deal with the situation concidering the fact that you thought you were when you had unprotected sex.

Best of luck, and enjoy the little bundle of joy.
:D

Answer 7

He must feel something to bed you. it takes two to make it, y blame the guy 50/50 responsiblity tell him or is it difficult cos he might be married. you have a mouth use it good luck

Answer 8

Tell him that you need to talk to him and just tell him. He needs to be a man and make sure you and the baby are going to be taken care of.

Answer 9

Just tell him that you are pregnant and this is a big step but you would like to sit down and discuss what's next.

Answer 10

tell him, if he really loves you he'll move heaven and earth to be with you and your child. if he can't commit you'll still have a beautiful baby an extension of you to cherish and share your precious life with! GOOD LUCK XX