2006-08-14 05:04:39 · 8 answers · asked by sweets 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
thanks everybody for the thoughts.
I know I want to do something, I just don't know what yet. And I'm just curious if other people can come up with more creativity than me --the bigger the better. except not too expensive. skydiving? hot air balloon?
it's for an anniversary and we've gone through a lot together this year.
2006-08-14 11:55:34 · update #1
Pick the parts of your first wedding that you really liked and that he really like and include them in the second one. If you have children, make sure they are there and have important roles.
If you're going to have a second wedding, you may as well have a second honeymoon. It doesn't have to be long or fancy. Just go somewhere quiet and be mushy with each other. Think of some things that you two have not done together or have done infrequently, and do them.
You are a very romantic woman. I wish I had someone like you in my life. Good luck to you. Peace and long life -- together.
2006-08-14 05:11:55 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you've got a vow renewal - that's what that's - thank you for noting that. There are transformations, regardless of if. a million. you don't get the huge gown - you're a spouse, not a bride. So get that out of your head. you got married in a gown you probably did not like - yet that replaced into your determination. no person held a gun on your head. 2. you don't get the presents - you're actually not a youthful couple installation house established jobs. that's not the time for a recent-grab. 3. you've got the huge cake and reception - reckoning on how many human beings you invite. 4. you need to save your vow renewal ceremony quiet and straightforward - and it would concentration on renewing your wedding ceremony vows - not you being queen for the day. back, you're a spouse - not a bride. 5. regarding your loved ones is an outstanding factor.
2016-10-02 01:45:48 · answer #2 · answered by olmeda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does HE want to renew his vows with you? Shouldn't you and he come to an agreement on the arrangements first? Why would you surprise him with this high-pressure situation? I think surprising him is a very bad idea.
Also, why a second wedding? Please examine why you really want this. First one wasn't fancy enough and now you want to show off in a nicer dress? You consider vow-taking to be a form of entertainment, a show you can have a re-run of or take "on the road?" You want to make a spectacle and receive attention from others? What?
Vow renewals should be done when both parties agree to do them, and should be a much more private sort of thing.
If you want to celebrate something, throw a big anniversary dinner-dance and invite people to that-- that would be much more appropriate. A second wedding really wouldn't.
You get one wedding per marriage.
2006-08-14 11:01:11 · answer #3 · answered by Etiquette Gal 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
a second wedding is a nice idea... but don't surprise him! especially when it involves vows or writing vows! talk it over with him, and plan it together! that's what marraige is about and it will be much more special if you plan it together.
ideas... keep it simple and small. invite family and only close close friends. make the affair initimate and special. make reservations at a really nice restaurant. maybe a restaurant with a banquet room.
that's just my two cents!
2006-08-14 05:55:04 · answer #4 · answered by ChitChatBrat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like it could be very nice. You could always involve the pastor from your church. We surprised my parents and in-laws with services on their anniversaries. You don't have to have him present to do the planning. You could invite everyone to the ceremony and tell them to not to tell your husband about the party. Good luck. Besides my husband would be totally for it - I am the one who said I would never get married again (we were married twice once in TN and once in KY a year apart).
2006-08-14 05:12:08 · answer #5 · answered by mom of girls 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One easy way would be a destination wedding. Most have packages and can be resonable if you plan ahead, plus it can then turn into a second honeymoon. Check online. Sandals resort is good place to start.
2006-08-14 05:15:39 · answer #6 · answered by Mark S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband wants to have us renew our vows in Las Vegas...by an Elvis impersonater...that's how we would have done it the first time..but I made the REAL plans... LOL
2006-08-14 06:50:47 · answer #7 · answered by just me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't know if that's the best idea. guys aren't into weddings let alone second weddings
2006-08-14 05:09:39 · answer #8 · answered by nyyankeesg1rl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋