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Yes this is really me - taken this summer in Hawaii at a LUAU!!--I'm devastated =( - THANK YOU LADIES FOR YOUR HELP ON MY LAST QUESTION - I WILL RATE IT SOON!! Is there a female out there to help me patch up my self esteem?
2006-08-14 05:03:39 · 17 answers · asked by ItalianKingofHearts 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NOT PATCH UP MY REALATIONSHIP - HELP ME PATCH UP MY SELF ESTEEM!!!!!!!
2006-08-14 05:07:47 · update #1
Are you sure you need patching or do you just need confirmation that there are still girls out there that are decent and not truly all witches? If you want you can IM me I clicked add to friend list on your link. I am really good at repairing broken self-esteem. I have a knack at it I guess.
2006-08-14 05:10:32 · answer #1 · answered by DispatchGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if you must depend upon someone else to improve your self esteem, you are in trouble. When you mention getting another girl to rebuild your ego, you are getting that girl for all of the wrong reasons.
I assume that you are adult, but your question does not indicate that you are capable of maintaining a relationship as you now stand defeated..
You need to build yourself up from the inside out, not the outside in. Make something of yourself that is important. Be the best at what ever you do and you will have your self esteem. No female can tear you down, unless you want them to. When you know you are the best.
you will learn to look at females from a different perspective. Females are not angels, nor are they superior beings that you must look up to.
Most females would rather look at you on the same level, not down and not up. You can overcome this defeat, if you really apply yourself.
Above all, do not depend upon anyone to evaluate your personality without the proper credentials. That is what makes losers.
Good Luck
If you have the feeling that girls are superior, just think of them doing what everyone does every day and they will come down off of that pedestal.
2006-08-14 05:22:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buddy, be careful - don't fall into the trap of thinking that just because a female created the problem, another female is the solution to the problem!
In fact, another female can potentially double your pain if she mistreats you as well, and then you would start thinking NO female can be trusted, which isn't true either!
Self-esteem is just that...esteem OF the self, BY the self. Throw yourself into other things you enjoy for awhile, and give yourself a chance to heal. If you want to talk it over with someone, find someone who is NOT a potential dating candidate (maybe a male would be better). After all, who knows better what a guy is going through than another guy?
I empathize and wish you well
2006-08-14 05:16:04 · answer #3 · answered by whabtbob 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like you need help. You say," Yes this is really me." as if we should be shocked.
You already know you're attractive. Kind of a Tom Cruise look going on there.
Whoever broke your heart, I'm sure you won't have any trouble finding another nice woman. Just make sure you are completely healed so you don't dwell on your EX in a new relationship.
Take it from me, it sucks feeling like I have to compete to prove to my significant other that I am better than the EX.
2006-08-14 05:17:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow a pair of testicles. Seriously, a real man doesn't let a woman shatter any part of his reality. Nothing worse than a wussy. Check out some of David Deangelo's advice, google it.
2006-08-14 05:10:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 05:39:48 · answer #6 · answered by nurdin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent. You need to build your own self esteem and not rely on others to do it for you.
2006-08-14 05:07:34 · answer #7 · answered by dulcetpurr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell yourself that she didn't deserve you... You are better than her... She only put you down because she has no self-esteem of her own. She thought that by making you feel like crap she'd feel good about herself.....Thank God you are done with that jerk!
2006-08-14 05:10:29 · answer #8 · answered by bellita_716 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that really is you, I would say you are attractive, but I'm one of those weird girls who can't stand muscles. I like my guys either scrawny or fluffy. Big huge gigantic muscles are a major turn off for me, but you have a nice face! And if I liked muscles, I would say YOWSA!
2006-08-14 05:08:31 · answer #9 · answered by i_hate_subway 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't get it! normally it's guys who shatter girls's self-esteem!
okay, if a person is no longer doing you any good... and is being harmful to you in so many ways, avoid that person altogether.
2006-08-14 05:31:29 · answer #10 · answered by Inquirer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋