What is your opinion of girls that give it up on the first date? What does this mean to you? As far as any future with that person goes.
2006-08-14 05:01:51 · 52 answers · asked by tamitones1978 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
something lots of ppl dont understand is that women enjoy sex just as much as guys,...sometimes more,{if possible,lol}. So...if a women wouldn't consider a man that gives it up to her on the first date,...their would be no couples,lol. It wouldn't change my opinion of her if i liked her.
2006-08-14 05:10:50 · answer #1 · answered by juslookin 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just like most women already know what you want for something long term us dudes do too, so if you give it up on the first date you a 50/50 chance of it lasting. So in my opinion it all depends on how well you hit off before you got down.
2006-08-14 05:10:24 · answer #2 · answered by matchbox 78 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why wouldn't i want her for the long term? the fact that i'm trying to date her means that i'm interested in her. the fact that she slept with me on the first date just means she wanted me as much as i wanted her (unless you're talking about "i'm snoring and oblivious to the world" sleeping... in which case i still don't see why that is wrong). there is also the fact that because it became a physical relationship so quickly, some people become a little more open because they think, "we have become *this* intimate, i don't have much else to hide so i can be completely open about what i think and feel"... it tends to cut down on the BS that most people say and do in the first few dates to look "good" and "desirable".
2006-08-14 05:16:21 · answer #3 · answered by kiss my wookie! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would depend did you know the girl or not. And remember she could ask the same about you. Plus you don't think of them for long term on the first date.
2006-08-14 05:15:50 · answer #4 · answered by robert d 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmm, u cant evaluate so. It depends on each other and how they act and love.
some use to sleep in first date, so it dosent mean they are bad.
If they really love each other well and trust them so, they can do anything.
But at the same time it doesnt match to all. some may utilize the opportunity and they will broke up soon. So its better not to have that type of date in first meet.
good luck. take care.
2006-08-14 05:38:21 · answer #5 · answered by surya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello tamitones1978,
That's an old fashioned notion. Guys love sex, and want sex. If he wants you, he'll continue to want you after he's had sex with you, unless you're lousy in bed. If you're great in bed, he won't stop calling you.
The long term goes along with liking you outside of the bedroom too. Hopefully, you two will like each other in general and have similar interests, but don't worry about what he may think of you having sex on the first date.
--Rick
2006-08-14 05:11:31 · answer #6 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whether or not a girl sleeps with me on the first date has absolutley no bearing on whether or not I would consider her for a long-term relationship.
Many women automatically assume that if they give it up on the first date, he'll never call again.....NOT ALWAYS TRUE!
I have had relationships with women that have slept with me on the first date.
2006-08-14 05:09:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
It rather matter on how nicely you be responsive to her it i pick to sleep along with her on the 1st date. seems and how stable she in mattress does not make a dating. It rather the way you experience for her, and beside if i became searching for a LTR, than i might additionally pick as quickly as we ought to consistently sleep jointly. So specific i might evaluate a dating with a woman that I rather have slept with on the 1st date, and should no longer matter approximately previous history, as long as we dedicated to a minimum of one yet another.
2016-12-14 05:39:45 · answer #8 · answered by nurdin 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My wife gave it up the first date and we have been together 20 years. It is not whether you give it up. It is what you want out of it when you do.
We were just having fun, and continued to have fun.
Don't give it up just with the thought of having that guy keep you forever. He may be just looking for fun.
2006-08-14 05:11:47 · answer #9 · answered by Just Another Guy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means nothing. You have to remember that usually when you get someone who is willing to do that it means nothing more than they may have a low self image or associate it with closeness and needing to be close to you. basicly it comes to the fact that they feel as if they have nothing more to offer and so they put all their chips down at the go. It's not a bad thing, just different. remember that to walk in a persons shoes you have to know their life experiences. hope it helps.
2006-08-14 05:18:47 · answer #10 · answered by SST 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋