2006-08-14 04:55:58 · 38 answers · asked by What! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You'll know when it counts!
2006-08-14 05:00:14 · answer #1 · answered by M S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have watched too many movies and/or read too many Harlequin romance novels! In these, the first kiss not only goes bang, it goes Kaboom! And so do all the rest!
In the real world, the first kiss is almost guaranteed to let you down because it's played up to be this incredible experience. We get so self-conscious about doing it right and making sure we don't miss our target that it's highly unlikely you'll get a rush from it!
So sorry, it counts - but if it didn't meet expectations, that's OK, because it almost never does for anyone! It's not the kiss itself that gives you the "bang" - it's the genuine love you feel for the other person and expressing it in this special way!
2006-08-14 05:07:36 · answer #2 · answered by whabtbob 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your first kiss will always be your first kiss whether it was what you expected or not...yes, it counts! It's something you'll remember for the rest of your life. When you feel that "bang" is when you'll know it's someone that will be special to you. My first kiss was a dare, with a boy that was 17, I was 12, so it was kinda awkward cause I had no idea what I was doing, and he was obviously more experienced than myself. Very sloppy, and digusting! So, just cause it wasn't what you expected doesn't mean it doesn't count.
2006-08-14 05:01:43 · answer #3 · answered by Shining Ray of Light 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course, it is difficult to determine exactly what you expected, but I must assume that you expected it to be more exciting than it was. It is a curious thing about romance, but if you did not feel a tingle, nor something like a mild electric shock, then it was not a kiss at all, but merely an exercise in futility. It may be that you did not put enough oomf in that kiss.
In order to get something out of a contact, you must put something into it.
Assuming that you and I had met and become friends, and then more than friends, I guarantee you that you would have received all that you expected. The reason is that I would not kiss you for the first time, unless I could feel that certain undefinable something that picks you up and makes you forget about everything. No thinking, just ecstatic feelings, followed by a warmth that lasts for hours.
When you kiss, you must feel something extra ordinary or it is not real.
Good Luck
2006-08-14 05:07:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
A kiss is a kiss, so it WAS your fist kiss.. so what? The bang would come in the future maybe with another person. If this guy didn't have it, then you just have to keep trying! I got my real bang in the kiss some years after my first kiss... (which now I am not sure when my first kiss was...) With that bang I knew that it was the keeper, and lucky wasn't the first one, or I would have missed allot!
2006-08-14 05:05:18 · answer #5 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sincerity is all that needs to be considered here. You know how you feel about another individual. It is not important about a first kiss in itself, but how two people feel. Sincerity is always the key to all people-based feelings. Anyway, if it is an artificial feeling, with no "bang" to it, it isn't your "first" anything. When both parties of a kiss enjoy each other in this way, then you and the other party have indeed experienced your first kiss. Read Psalm 35 to (Plead My Cause) and let God show you which way to go in your life. Remember this, "If God be for us, who can be against us?" - Romans 8:31.
2006-08-14 05:01:56 · answer #6 · answered by In God We Trust 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on who you kissed and what you were expecting. If the bang you want is one you saw in a movie or TV you are probably set for constant disappointment. Try with some other persons that you care about and see how that works out. If you don't practice like that as a carefree kid you will never get any real life way to make judgments and will have a miserable life (and probably a loveless marriage).
2006-08-14 05:04:48 · answer #7 · answered by Rich Z 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My first kiss made me want to throw up. I was so disappointed, but what's funny, is when I talk to other people about their first kiss, so many say the same thing: awkward, weird, kind of gross, not that cool. It seems that's totally normal!
It's okay, the idea of the first kiss being total fireworks, is actually very rare. But don't worry, someday, your first kiss with somebody will be just fantastic, and that's the only kiss you'll care about.
Best Wishes!
2006-08-14 05:01:33 · answer #8 · answered by daisyk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything in your life is an experience. My first real kiss was scary and my thought was "this is slobbery and wet...like kissing a dog! Why do people do this?" but I'll never forget it. I think everything counts because it's still a memory that you have. Even the bad parts of your life should mean something...they help form you. :)
2006-08-14 04:59:21 · answer #9 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It counts... I didnt have the BANG either... I dont think most people do... Kissing is just kissing. Being in love is what really gives you that BANG!
2006-08-14 04:59:26 · answer #10 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first kiss, no matter how bad it is, always counts. It is what you base all of your future kisses on. Look on the bright side, things can only get better from here.
2006-08-14 04:59:58 · answer #11 · answered by CJBig 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋