2006-08-14 04:40:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Thank my adoptive parents and don't hurt them by seeking your birth parents until you are an adult.
2006-08-14 04:46:41 · answer #1 · answered by Irish Eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be thankful that someone wanted me instead of worry about the person that gave me away. those that are adopted can take pride in the fact they were really wanted and not an accident. If your parents are good to you make a special effort to let them know how thankful you are to be in their lives. Do not let the past haunt you. All that stuff about looking up birth parents is for those that are unsure of themselves and their roots. No sense dragging up negatives when you have a positive relationship now.
2006-08-14 11:49:06 · answer #2 · answered by hardnose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was adopted by my step dad. I was lied to for many years about this. I didn't find this out until I went to get my birth certificate I was 21 at the time.. I was not legally adopted. I was so pissed at them. Now I'm having a hard time finding and getting my birth certificate.
2006-08-14 13:30:00 · answer #3 · answered by Beth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally feel that the people who adopted you is your true parents. Know matter what happens i feel they will be there for you. I know it come as a shock to you. Just remember it was hard for them to tell you to. It will be your decision to look for your real parents. Don't expect everything to be okay at home if you decide this. They may ask you to wait until you move out. If you decide to do this then don't get your hopes up.. You don't know what the situation was for your real parents to give you up. I really do believe that you will always have the best parents already their for you.
2006-08-14 12:06:45 · answer #4 · answered by Tammy L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I found out i was adopted when i was 13. That devestated me. For a long time i hated my adopted parents and felt left out, like i had no family. Ifelt my parents had betrayed me and that they loved my sisters(their biological kids) more than me it took a long time to get over. now i just wonder what my real parents are like and if i have any of hteir traits
2006-08-18 10:27:29 · answer #5 · answered by shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I wouldn't hate my real parents because maybe they had a good explanation for putting me up for adoption. I'd thank my foster parents for their hospitality and i go search for my real parents and just bond with them when I find them and ask them questions I've always wanted to know.
2006-08-14 11:48:47 · answer #6 · answered by Lili 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my parents have raised me. If i were to find out i was adopted, i wouldnt care that much. They rasied me... THEY are my parents. When I fell down and got hurt, mommy was there. It would be kinda rough emotionally, but they are the ones who took care of me, so as i look at it, they are my only parents.
2006-08-14 11:47:32 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were contented on what i have and if my parentswho adopt me treats me really nice and loves me,i won't dare asking what had happened to my biological parents and maybe it will cause me pain if i heard something bad about the reason why they left me.
2006-08-14 11:59:53 · answer #8 · answered by chicky_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thank god for giving me parents. there must be a reason that they have adopted us. Be happy n ask them our origin if they are willing to share.
2006-08-14 11:48:35 · answer #9 · answered by HK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be Shocked for a while then become interested in finding my real parents so I could find the real scoop on why they gave me up!
2006-08-14 12:21:58 · answer #10 · answered by Wayne S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋