I've decided that even though my Ex is now married, I'm gonna contact him again and try to win him back. As he has changed his numbers and email address and no longer lives at his last known address, all i have is his works name and number. How should I do this - sensible suggestions please!
2006-08-14 04:39:12 · 24 answers · asked by Easy Rider 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ah another case of a bold heart, good for you,listen up people you should never lose an investment of time in a person, you make it work,now how to approach him.Do you take life by the balls, lets face it you only get one shot at life (no pun intended ) he he !.Or do you do the waiting thing, Ye uk.Do you know a work mate of his, laterally thinking does he go drinking after work, any sporting interests ? start there.You could always employ a private detective, no they dont cost that much, what price do you put on love ?.
2006-08-14 05:13:52 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Really think you should move on. Like the others have said, he is settled now. If he had wanted you to contact him he wouldn't of changed his numbers or email address without letting you know what the new ones are.
Though its hard move on with your own life, like he has!
2006-08-14 12:05:38 · answer #2 · answered by Tara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When people get married they are supposed to stay that way (the until death do us part bit is a bit of a clue).
So my advice to you would be to leave well alone. You'll only look like a desperate housebreaker going after someone who's married.
2006-08-14 11:56:44 · answer #3 · answered by ralphseviltwin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's an Ex and you broke it off then he has every right to move on and find happiness.
If he broke it off he doesn't want a relationship with you and has obviously found happiness with another. Either way, leave the poor man alone.
2006-08-14 11:47:08 · answer #4 · answered by Baxter 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should move on too. Im sure its hard for you but you split up for a reason, if you were happily married to a guy you loved and some women tried to steal him away from you how would you feel?..Move on and meet someone better :)
2006-08-14 12:06:50 · answer #5 · answered by kt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you serious...you want sensible suggestions to win back a married man? you don't need the drama that comes with that...but if that's what you want...no one in their right man is gonna have good advice to break up a marriage...remember karma...think about what you're getting yourself into...he's moved on, you need to, too!!
2006-08-14 11:48:39 · answer #6 · answered by sweet_latina830 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Phone up and find out where this worksite is.
Then just hang around outside the factory gate with no knickers on. It would work with me - well for about ten minutes at a time that is.
2006-08-14 11:53:03 · answer #7 · answered by Ian H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wanted to be with you he would come and find you. Don't chase after him...you will lose any shred of dignity you have and he won't have any respect for you.
Your Mr Right is out there somewhere and he won't be married to someone else
2006-08-14 12:01:04 · answer #8 · answered by Popgoestheweasel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh you are sick! he is living happily now, why do you want to axe his happy married life. Let him enjoy his life. You can find any guys round there to spend time with. Stop living in past.
2006-08-14 12:54:04 · answer #9 · answered by LemonPro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o god no there is somebody out there for you trust me
i know it feels like you have to have him but its not meant to be to interfere and mess up someones marriage is just so selfish im sorry to be cruel but its a gard cold fact that if you truly love someone set them free, its not just a sting song its true.
you prob a reall cool lady who just needs to find herself, forget men youve obviously been hurt what you need is a break or holiday with some friends, clear your head! trust me if you were meant to be with this guy he would be phoning you...and he isnt let it go.......
2006-08-14 12:04:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋