i have a gf and im keeping it a secret from everyone till im older, is this right?

Question

i feel so bad going against everyone but i love her.

Answer 1

If you have a girlfriend that you are keeping hidden, then there must be something wrong. She is older or your family would not approve of her. If you have to hide her is she really worth your time? Are you going to keep with her after you are older? If the answer to these questions is no, then please do not continue to date her. You are wasting her time and yours. She would do better to see someone else.

Answer 2

It just depends...1st, does she know that you are keeping it a secret? 2nd, if you want to wait to tell everyone when you are older, are the consequences going to be bad if someone does find out? But then again, you have to consider if you really love her, she is worth anything, right? I don't think what you are doing is wrong, because I done it once my self, and I was and have never been happier. I have been dating the guy now for almost 2 years, we have been talking about marriage and now everyone knows that we are official. It was kind of fun and exciting... you know... keeping it secret. It kind of made our relationship stronger, because we had to work harder at it. So I say, if you lover her, go for it. She is evidently worth it if you are making it public to the internet.

Answer 3

If you are of age, then why keep it a secret... Your family may not approve, but the bottom line is, it's your choice.. No one can make decisions for you or chose who your partner will be in life... No one can chose your happiness.

If you continue to keep it a secret, that is just going to bring friction between you and your girlfriend. She will eventually get tired of your relationship not being out in the open. You can only hide it for so long...

Tell everyone and explain. If they love you, they will except your decisions and learn to except her....

Answer 4

Whenever I'm trying to keep something secret, I love posting it all over the internet. It works really well.

Answer 5

Trying to keep this sort of thing hidden won't work. Somebody will eventually find out and the reaction from whomever you're hiding her from will be worse than if you would just tell them.

Answer 6

that's completely wrong my dear.looks like you are not proud of your girl and it made her think that you're hiding with someone else,that your cheating on her that's why your keeping your relationship with her as a secret.
if you really love her,don't mind on what people will say about the two of you.don't let them ruin your relationship with her and don't get affected.don't wait that your girl began to wonder why your keeping you relationship that long.

Answer 7

how old are you if i kno that then i can really give you good advice. but i f you keep secrets something is going to go wrong and the whole thing wwill end quickly and your heart will probably get broken

Answer 8

well it depends.. if there's no problem with ur parents (e.g. diff religion, family hatred, etc etc) then hide it for now.. and keep it strong...

there's no need to tell right now .. tell it when you've got a leg to stand on, and so has she.. there's 2 reasons for this.. one, they'll respect your decision if you make it when you've grown up.. and two, you'll be sure by then that you've made the right choice.

Answer 9

When you're about 8 or 9 years old I think it will be alright to tell your parents.

Answer 10

Be open and be yourself. You will be a lot happier not keeping things in. You are the only one in control of your life and happiness, allow yourself to be happy.