I need help!!! HELP!! HELP!! HELP!!?

Question

Hey there, well, your first impression of this guy will be....
" Heck!! this guy SUCKS!!"
Well, ppl, I've got a problem. My problem is.....*Drum rolls*

I've got a new crush!!!!WAAAAAAAHHHHH!!!!
Everytime I have a crush, I can't stop thinking of her and I keep sighing my breath off, thinking of What the HECK of a boy I am, I don't study well, and I am heck shy.

Shyness makes me a person who doesnt talk his heart out and who mostly hides his opinions.HECK!!! I am leading a darn negative life, as you can judge by my "Hecks"

Well, today at school (i'm 15) There was a basketball match. A girl's basketball match.
When I scanned through one team, My eyes, rested on a girl. Pretty, attractive and HEART THROBBING!!! I immediatly began to like her.
She was like, So PRETTY and so enchanting. He played like a lioness, full of vitality and vigour!!!

And My heart was hers.

Now, I'm terribly suffering, neither is she from my school and neither am I a good sportsman.

Do you have any suggestions to stop myself from thinking of her??

Did you ever feel like it too??

What to do??

Please give me proper answers.

You expect ppl to give you nice answers when YOU ask questions.

Please ppl, this guy here is in HECK!!

Answer 1

Ok, ok, first of all, calm down! It's not a problem that you're so into your crush! Infact, most girls would think that's sweet! Just make sure it
a) doesn't affect your studies too much. If you have a problem concentrating because you're thinking of the girl, think about how if you work hard you'll seem even more intelligent and interesting to her!
b) make you seem obsessed about her. It could make people slightly scared, her included!

Ok, second, shyness is good in a guy! To a girl, it makes you cuter, and it'll be comforting for her to know that you're not so self assured that you'll be ushy or forceful. Which is annoying and scary!

Thirdly, 'heck' is good; you're obviously not some foul-mouthed yob! This'll mean that she'll be less anxious about you meeting her parents! n_n You can relax more then, too!

Ok, now, can you find out from someone who's on your school's basketball team which school they were playing in that game? If not, there should be a results table, or record of it somewhere! You could always ask one of the PE staff who was there. Now, I guess you have two main options from there! (Man, I've given this a lot of thought, huh?) If you know someone in the school, ask them to find out when the basket ball practice is (hopefully after school), and you can wait for her to come out and talk to her then. By all means, say that you saw her at the basket ball match at your school, and just had to see her again, or something sweet like that, but make sure that you don't sound like a complete stalker! That'll just make her freak out.
Second plan, which means you have to wait a bit, but I think is probably the better of the two, as it's less stalker-ish. Keep an ear to the ground for when her team is next playing at your school, and make sure that you're there, like last time. Then, after the game, you can talk to her.

Mind you, bear in mind that 1) you know next to nothing about her, so she may not be quite as you've imagined her.
2) she may already have a boyfriend
3) seeing as she doesn't really know you, either, I'd iomagine she'll want to get to know you better before seeing you as a boyfriend.

Good luck, mate! May the force be with you!

I hope this has helped...

Answer 2

If you are shy and have problems talking to girls you should try to be around girls in situations where you can be more comfortable talking to them. Join a group where you already know you have something in common with the girl. As for the girl that you are currently infatuated with there really isn't much to do but either talk to her and ask her out or just wait for your crush to be over. If she doesn't go to your school then you wont have to be as embarrassed if you talk to her and it doesn't go well. Sometimes it's just about having confidence in yourself. If you can't see your self doing that get your mind off of her by keeping busy and maybe meeting other girls with your interests. There are so many women out there and there are probably a lot that are just waiting for a guy like you!

Answer 3

Okay first of all you have fell in love for all the wrong reasons. You can't just like a girl just because she is pretty. First you need to TALK to her and see what her interests are, it can't just be basketball. And give yourself time to cool down, it's pretty intense when you first see a girl you hae a crush on. So wait a few days before you make a move, you don't want to stumble all over yourself, okay? And good luck.

Answer 4

given the fact you aren't at the same school- unless you try to track her down...what is your game plan? if nothing- well dream of her all you want and realize that this will go no where. Unless you have some female friend on your schools b-ball team that can do some of the work to help you out with this other girl. One way or the other you gotta get past the shyness if you want to get a girlfriend. Good luck!

Answer 5

Well, unless you know her name and where u can find her, then its just hopeless. Do guys and gals where u live have a meeting point?
If u do, u can try to look for her. But i u find her, be prepared to talk to her, but pls for god sake, dont tell her "im in love with you" or "you pretty/gorgeous/breathtaking" and stuff like that. She knows she's pretty. Ask her opinion about something. Maybe you can ask her what she thinks of your school's basketball yard, and from that u can ask her about how she's started to play basket. be funny and cocky. she doesnt know u are not a sport guy, and probably she doesn care.
If u cant find her, dont worry, find another girl. there's 7 girl for every guy, according to statistics.

Answer 6

I can give you advice. Quit thinking with the brain between your legs and start thinking with the one you apparently are using to just keep your ears apart. Your 15 wait til you at least graduate before you lay your heart out. Besides you described Lust not Love.

Answer 7

You sound so philosophical: You should take a writing class, or something along those lines. You could be a great poet or a novelist! Instead of worrying about this girl... Write about it. Submit your writings... I bet you could win.... and as you get more and more famous for your books... Girls will flock to you, and you will lose your shyness... Good luck!

Answer 8

All I can say is, you need to get some courage.... When I was fifteen years old, I had a chance to meet this great guy... but b/c I was shy I missed out... He ended up moving on, Years later we became friends and he confessed he had a crush on me.. but it was too late we were already involved with other people...

You could be missing out on a great girl and she could be missing out on a great guy....you..lots of luck..

Answer 9

Invite her to a communal event, talk to her about basketball, tell her that she plays well, of course she'll want to hear that.
When I was in H.S shyness detroyed alot of possibilities.
Fight it. What is the worst that can happen?

Answer 10

You definetly need her number.

1) get her number
2) call her
3) call her a couple more times
4) then ask her out!