what do guys like about girls? is it their look or their personality because i have no idea? I have heard so many things and i don't know what to believe. what do most guys want out of a relationship?
2006-08-14 04:16:31 · 24 answers · asked by Loveable23 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hard to answer, but I'll try to be as logical about it as possible. When we're younger, it's doubtful that us guys have any morals as far as what we look for in women, so if we see a pretty face, we're attracted. Some guys don't learn any values over time though, so it's possible that this is all that matters to some of them.
A question like this is hard to answer, because no two guys are completely alike in what they find attractive and unattractive about women. I'd say that likes and dislikes about women are developed by men through personal experiences in life. So in other words, nothing about attraction is set in stone for all people. It's just a matter of preference.
However, I'd say the more mature the guy, the more personality plays a role in their search for a good relationship.
Here's a list of what I know turns INTELLIGENT men on about women:
-Brains
-Sense of humor
-Having direction in life
-Not being overly emotional
-Being understanding
-Not needing to spend every second of your day with them
2006-08-14 04:22:10 · answer #1 · answered by Axel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every guys wants a different thing. It's best to find someone who's desires are compatible with yours.
If you want a guy who will treat you well, hold you in your arms and love you, then you should look for a guy who is even tempered, forgiving, gentle, and loving.
Some guys place more emphasis on appearance than others, some like stupid girls some like smart girls, some like mean girls some like nice girls. It's best to just be yourself but try to make yourself noticed, even if you are shy.
2006-08-14 11:22:31 · answer #2 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing is a fun yet humble personality. If you dont have that then forget it. Second a nice face and body. As long as its all natural. Unfortunetly most guys look for a girl with a big butt,chest and preaty face. Personality can tag along.
2006-08-14 11:23:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks can be a plus, it attracts more options toward you, but its your personality that would keep someone interested in establishing a long term relationship...so I'd say it's the person who admires your personality more than your looks that you should consider taking to another level.
2006-08-14 11:24:08 · answer #4 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every guy likes something different...even though it seems like looks are every thing these days, and everyone is into that one pretty girl, there really looking for a relationship that can be fulfilled by one another.
2006-08-14 11:27:48 · answer #5 · answered by FlAwL3ss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i look at a girls personality, cuz the girl needs a good personality in order 2 b a good person
2006-08-14 11:34:39 · answer #6 · answered by Josh D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm...that is a question I would like to get a real good answer by men...because I am confused also they say oh the personality and then they say you are beautiful and they love you and the won't cheat but then they go ahead and can't stay away from temptation so it is all confusing.
2006-08-14 11:24:28 · answer #7 · answered by MZ.LANDA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly their look. Beauty can have influence on men. But you cannot read a girl's mind to learn about her personality.So the answer is their look.
2006-08-14 11:25:02 · answer #8 · answered by deniz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys want a girl to hold and love. one to get along with. a girl they can trust. some just want sex! lol but most want a beautiful trustful girl.
2006-08-14 11:24:29 · answer #9 · answered by fuzzysparkle182 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on their opinions smart guys love to b with sexy girls to show of but atlast they rely only on those who are trust worthy and understanding but u have to give them some time to realise that.shy guys like smart girls but are afraid to approach to them so they get together with shy girls and try to fullfill their dreams. but when the right time comes,u will b known
2006-08-14 11:34:23 · answer #10 · answered by DJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋