Men, why do you think that treating women with no respect is going to get you laid?

Question

Why do you think it works?

Yeah, I think it never works on me because I am a "bad" girl lol, when I guy treats me like crap to get his attention all that I want to do is snap at him.

I am more impressed with the gentlemen.

to get my*

OH NO momma's boy are horrible also. I like them to be in between of both.

I am a virgin, how can I said I have gotten laid? It just know many guys who like to attack girls , and I really detest that type of behavior.

Correction: say*

Answer 1

Seriously, believe or not, I am a nice guy. If I meet a girl for the first time and I am myself - I get myself another friend.

If I meet a girl for the first time, and I treat them badly, I'm about 60% more likely to get laid. Although I might often do this in a tongue-in-cheek way, it works as either a serious act or in a jokey manner.

Why does it work?
I seriously don't know. But I have a working theory. If you behave like an ***, then the girl assumes they have magnetism enough for you to talk them, but not enough for you to like them. Making them psychologically more likely to 'do' something to make you want to stick around.
If that's true then its a variation of the same chat-up trick of 'I don't have time to stick around. I've gotta go find my friends'. As again the psychological idea behind it is to make the girl feel she needs to 'do' something to make the guy stick around.

Truth is (sadly), it works, and seemingly on a more subconcious level than politeness or kindness. Perhaps the question should be turned back on women - why don't you like nice guys?

Answer 2

First of all...not all men are created equal!! Guys like this p*** me of because they give us all a bad name. And by the way...getting laid isn't the most important thing to a lot of us guys, it's getting to know you and becoming companions first. The sex is an earned benefit. Problem is that being nice doesn't seem to work either! Every woman I've dated talked about how they wanted to find a guy who would treat them like a princess, showering them with attention and romancing the h*** out of them. THIS is exactly how I was. Romanced them, never forgot important dates, showered them with attention and affection, and what did I hear? "I'm sorry, but your too nice. I'm so used to being treated like crap, that's all I know. I can't get used to this." And off they run back to some clueless loser to get treated like what they're used to. AND THEN SOME OF THEM ARE STUPID ENOUGH TO MARRY THESE GUYS! Sorry, but stupid is the only word I can think of to describe such a mindless action. I might not be in a relationship right now, thus I'm not getting "laid", but I'd rather be single and frustrated then to have to stoop to the level of the Neanderthals that think they're real men because they can act all tough with the girls in front of their buddies. Maybe you should try a little older and more mature man who isn't puffing up his chest and trying to hump your leg every five minutes.

Answer 3

Because a lot of women make that mistake. They seem to confuse the sensation of danger/humiliation with attraction/love. I'm always surprised how much abuse/humiliation the average woman takes and the amount the average man gets away with. As a father of an only daughter I'm sometimes wondering if there are strategies against how it is that things inevitably work.

But back to your question, I have personally noticed that whenever I treated women nice my chances to get laid were slimmer than when I acted bold/directly or even being the complete and perfect a$$hole. Men who know this act like they do because they know what they will get, and women who know this simply ask: "Do you really hate me or do you wanna wanna?"

Answer 4

You are hanging around with the wrong men. There are a FEW guys out there that prey on women with self esteem issues and a lack of self respect, but that's just a few guys. When those guys run into a woman that has good self respect the guy doesn't know how to relate, thus he becomes the same jerk as he does with the few women that are vulnerable to that crap.

Answer 5

First off not all men treat women that way. The ones that do have a low self esteem and think they look "cool". Unfortantly women with low self esteem are the ones that tend to give in and thus give these idiots the impression that thier system works!

Answer 6

It's not something I like doing, but I do know men for whom this strategy has worked. I actually know quite a few who have more luck being jerks than being nice. One guy I know met his wife by literally bumping into her in a bar, & jumping her case for spilling his drink. She bought him a new drink & spent the rest of the evening with him. I know another guy who works where I do, who has tattoos on his face & is well-known for using women just long enough to get laid & then dropping them. I know for a fact he & I have hit on some of the same women at work, & that he scores with them while I'm left losing interest in them.
I think it works because all people are individuals, & have individual tastes. Not every woman will like the same type of man you do, just as not every man will like the same type of woman I do. Add to that the fact that many women don't seem to be happy unless there is a conquest involved where a man is concerned, & I believe this is why it works. I know many women openly admit they aren't interested in a man unless they have to win him, & unless he is a challenge for them. Nice guys aren't challenges, & we are often not as desirable to this sort of woman as the man who she never quite knows is true to her. Many men realize these sorts of women exist, & exploit them by being jerks. That way, they are challenging, & are therefore appealing. So, these women have sex with jerks in hopes of obtaining them, & achieving their conquest, all the while missing out on the nice guys who they say they want because they don't have to fight to hold onto nice guys. Odd, isn't it?

Answer 7

It has in the past. Look around, women like men who treat them like sh*t. The whole reason you ask this question is that you fell for a man that treated you like sh*t (right? probably laid him good too!) so don't pretend to come now and hit men up with some knowledge. Ok?

Answer 8

I've been left because I was told I was "too nice" I was really confused about that one, but I still think that all women are the best thing ever created and I refuse to treat them bad.

Answer 9

Because sadly the way to get a girl is to act stupid, mean, and with no respect. That is the key reason we have abused woman, TPO's, PPO's, victims assistance, and the like.

Answer 10

because sadly there are some woman out there with no self respect and many many insecurities and they do let men get away with it so I guess its those women's fault as much as the mens fault. women should NEVER let men get action for treating them with no respect!!!