2006-08-14
03:39:12
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sling it bird
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Family & Relationships
➔ Weddings
Feel free to add ring jokes, know I will get them anyway
2006-08-14
03:42:32 ·
update #1
Harry, you know what, I think you are right.
It does sound like I am a bit of a mentalist.
2006-08-14
03:47:04 ·
update #2
7 years, I am not waiting for that long, sod it, I am off.
2006-08-14
04:17:00 ·
update #3
Dump him for a week and scrub that scent of desperation off yourself girl.
Harsh I know, but true.
Okay then.
Send him a text promising unspeakable dirtiness in the sack.
I'll give him 5 minutes before the panting starts.
2006-08-14 03:43:37
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answer #1
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answered by SilentRunning 3
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This is how I handled it- I sat him down and we discussed it.
Yeah, sometime guys need a little help! I told him I wanted a ring- I wanted to get engaged and I wanted to get married. He honestly told me that he didn't want to buy me a ring and thought it was a waste of money. I told him, that was fine but I was leaving him. If he didn't feel that I was "worth" a ring then this relationship was pointless and not what I wanted. He argued with me that Jewelry wasn't important and not the real point of the relationship and just a rip off and so on. I explained to him why the ring was important to me and why I wanted one. I told him that if he still felt that the ring wasn't important after I explained what it meant to me and why it was important to me- then I was leaving. And if he didn't want to get married- well then you don't want the same thing as me and I am leaving.
I had my diamond in less then 6 months :)
2006-08-14 05:10:11
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answered by Anonymous
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Tell him that you love him very much and you want to take your relationship to the next level. And then ask him how he feels about it. Let him know that you would like a engagement ring within the next year or you are going to have to move on because you want to be with him legally.
2006-08-14 13:17:16
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answer #3
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answered by jbrez9 2
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Hi, if you are on about and engagement ring just say to him, can we get engaged he will eithersay yes or no , but i think he should expect it if you have been seeing each other for 7 years. Just drop it in a conversation sometime.
2006-08-14 08:56:22
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answered by Anonymous
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Have you talked with him about what you want from a marriage? My husband and I talked about our views on marriage and whether we wanted kids or not. We talked about life as a married couple. If you haven't had these discussions, you don't know what his opinions are. If you have had these conversations and he isn't ready to get married, then you won't be getting a ring anytime soon. You could then let him know that you eventually (soon) want to have a married life with him and have children (or not) with him. Then let him know that you are not waiting and that you will be moving on with or without him and be prepared to follow through. Good Luck.
2006-08-14 05:16:42
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answered by mom of girls 6
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You don't, you either wait for him to want to give you his ring or you ask him if your sick of the wait, it has to mean something though, rings aren't just collectors items to look through in later life, there a commitment, are you ready for the commitment or better still is he, ask him what his feeling are about this first.
2006-08-14 04:44:53
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answered by Anonymous
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Phone him first then hang up before he answers saving you money and then he'll give you a ring it works for me the credit on my mobile phne last for ages.
2006-08-14 03:48:51
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answer #7
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answered by CHURCHBELLROPE 2
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Damn, every guys worst nightmare, if he wants to give u a ring then leave it up 2 him, dont force it, thats the quickest way to end up single
2006-08-14 03:50:11
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answered by Anonymous
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I had to wait 7 years for mine so I guess your guys just waiting for the right moment! Good luck!
2006-08-14 04:10:49
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answered by Secret Squirrel 6
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if you love him and want to marry him just relax and tell him you are ready for the next step. if he isnt then you will have to decide are you in the relationship for the guy or the ring? be patient but let him know it is important to you.
2006-08-14 06:03:27
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answered by hedley_20 3
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