I already finish raising my kids from my first wife who I was unfaithful to and I regret it.I think my new lady trick me since she witness how I suffer my divorce.Was moving with her before My divorce and pain was over a mistake?will it work after I have said soo many lies to my kids ,exwife and ever her?
2006-08-14 03:27:30 · 18 answers · asked by jubileejoy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Face up to your kids, your ex wife, and admit your guilt. Admit to your new lady that you made a mistake to break your marriage vows. You will need to pay for your mistake for the rest of your life, just have all these other people paid for your actions. Start working now to repair the damage, and restore little by little all the lives you have hurt and the hearts you have broken.
2006-08-14 04:04:16 · answer #1 · answered by SmokeyGun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You live with her. You sleep with her. The possibility of her getting pregnant must have occured to you.
Take the responsibility. If you had no wish at all to be a father you should have made it clear to her and ensured that she did not get pregnant, meaning used condoms everytime, unfailingly.
Don't blame her for being unfair. Don't bother thinking whether you made a mistake. In our loneliness, we all often make unthinking decisions.
And besides, there is not much point in playing the blame game. Now that she is pregnant, the damage is done. Decide whether you want the baby or not. And what to do next if you want to keep or not keep the baby.
And for goodness sake, next time you ever decide to sleep with anyone, please consider pregnancy and baby as a very real possibility. Or go solo....
2006-08-14 10:37:46 · answer #2 · answered by blundering fool 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One thing you should never do is marry or move in with someone until you are 100% clear on what you want and expect from each other. Even though it is too late to do something about the child, use this as a wakeup call to know that there are other issues you should be discussing to determine if your relationship with her should go further. This is probably just an early indication of other decisions that will be made on your behalf to your dissatisfaction and to your disliking.
2006-08-14 10:34:34 · answer #3 · answered by Joe K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boo, Hoo, Hoo. It takes two to make a baby. What were you doing to prevent the pregnancy? You are reaping the benefits of your lying and cheating ways. If anything your kids should learn not to be like you and to be truthful, faithful and caring compassionate human beings. Start TODAY by vowing not to ever lie again and stand up like a MAN and take responsibility for all of the lives you have created and meddled in! Good luck!
2006-08-14 10:35:36 · answer #4 · answered by kksay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i am sorry to say but you made your bed now you must lie in it. Face the music and be a man for once in your life. You say you have lied cheated and and been dishonest to all those you love. Its time to start being a man and a good one at that. Confess your lies and sins to ur ex and kids. And current girl can not trick u into getting her pregnant, your the one that agreed to have unprotected sex so man up and stop being a litle pu$$y
2006-08-14 10:35:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She ain't get pregnant without asking you! Anytime you put it in without a condom you run that chance! Don't blame it on her just say you made a mistake, because you were there too! You need to get pass your divorce and forget the ex and help be a father that this baby needs. You sound like your still in love with the ex.
2006-08-14 10:46:03 · answer #6 · answered by Blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if this child on the way is a good idea, I hope it is and you'll amke the best decisions and everything works out. I mean maybe this is your great opportunity to try things over again to make things right with a new family and a new prospect on life. Now that you haev grown and are more experienced, take care and good luck...
2006-08-14 10:32:38 · answer #7 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's not fair? You were living with a woman and having sexual relations with her and now she's pregnant? If you are 45 years old, surely you realize how pregnancy can occur? You do know that sex causes pregnancy, right?
So now you're going to have a child with this woman. Get ready to be a Daddy all over again!
2006-08-14 10:33:25 · answer #8 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand how she tricked you. It takes two to tango, buddy.
Yes, moving in with her before you were over your divorce was probably a mistake. But, you are just going to have to suck it up and be a man about it.
2006-08-14 10:33:28 · answer #9 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look into my ball....u will hav 2 twins with 6 arms and eight legs...ever heard of birth control jerk? Since you have been an asshole all along, do you expect the fairy godmother to turn the rest of your life into a miracle? Get Real!!!
2006-08-14 10:34:24 · answer #10 · answered by bekkie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋