We hit it off great. We get along perfect and then bam, she said we should take it slow and that we should back off a little. She still wants to hang out but seems distant. I really like her and I don't know what to do. Am I just kidding myself??
2006-08-14 03:08:52 · 13 answers · asked by agcornhskr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know it sucks, but she isn't into you. She probably enjoyed the beginning stage and the flirting, but if she was really into you, she wouldn't want to back off. Sorry :(
2006-08-14 03:13:13 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs.H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An approximate age & time span would have helped.
1. She could be really falling for you & it's scaring her.
2. She could be having doubts and wants to make sure.
3. Maybe the relationship IS moving too fast and she wants to go slower.
4. Maybe she is starting to cool. Better you find out now, than a year after you're married.
5. Something personal may have happend & she's trying to deal with it.
6. Take it easy. Don't rush the relationship. Give it a few weeks & see where it's going. Keep communication open. It'll either start going forward, or die off.
2006-08-14 03:18:01 · answer #2 · answered by weddrev 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that what she's trying to say is I want to get to know you a little bit better. You're better off getting to know each other first before the relationship goes any further. Take your time and enjoy getting to know each other first. That way you'll both know if this is where you'll both want to be. It's doesn't necessary mean she doesn't like you she just want to be sure in knowing who you really are. Maybe you should talk to her about it. See if there's more going on than meets the eye. Make it so that she can feel comfortable talking to you about what's going on with her. Be subtle, yet straight forward but be at least a little sensative to her feelings. Try it and see what happens good luck!
2006-08-14 03:24:15 · answer #3 · answered by friend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants a little bit of time off to think?
Whenever I catch myself falling in love, I always step back and remove myself from the situation so as to think clearly first.
It would never do to fall in love with a guy who simply wants to sleep with me. It would be even worse to accidentally get pregnant with someone who really doesn't care very much about me other than the fact that I am great in bed.
So I stop. And think for a while. Is it ok to fall in love with this great guy or not? Will my parents disown me? Will he leave me and I end up crying buckets 6 months down the road? Or will my best friend hit on him and will I lose him and my heart?
After I've stopped to consider, I may let myself fall in love, or I may stop. Stay distant and keep myself safe from being hurt by him.
2006-08-14 03:18:13 · answer #4 · answered by blundering fool 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, now I have said this before... more than once.....For me, I meant just that.....I'm a person that likes to feel free....I wanted to be in a healthy relationship, but as soon as I got close to a person....I'd feel two things...a)scared to death of falling for someone...and b)like my space was being invaded. These are protective things that make us feel safer if we RUN. Most men will do just the opposite and drive a girl further from her. The best move you can make at this point is to show her that you respect her and care how she's feeling. don't call for a few days....not as a punishment but it will give her time to herself and time to miss you. If there is something there...trust me she'll come around. I know it's not easy honey, but I'm just telling you how it's worked for me. I finally met a guy that gave me the space I needed and really was there for me as a friend and understood where I was coming from and he makes me very happy.....hope that helps...good luck hon!
2006-08-14 03:21:01 · answer #5 · answered by Joeygirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry but she gave you a hint ... if you want it spelled out it means : You are good person but she doesn't really care abt you. She first thought you could be someone she could be more than friends but has lost interest in you and she knows you still like her. She doesn't like you but she doesn't wanna be rude to you and dump you harshly. So she is giving you hints so that you will go away from her by yourself.
My advice... forget her and go on to the next girl in your life. She doesn't want you.
2006-08-14 03:27:50 · answer #6 · answered by GoodGuy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deleting your surfing heritage and doing a disk defrag can help. also, if that is been a lengthy time period, i ought to run an total equipment virus experiment. there has been some nasty crap flying round at the moment. I have AVG and Malwarebytes. both are loose, so experience free to target them out.
2016-12-06 12:38:04 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually it means things are moving to fast. Enjoy the slow dating process before the intimacy picks up.
2006-08-14 03:13:34 · answer #8 · answered by scare_all 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yup. She's no longer interested in you.
Move on my friend and give me 10 points while you're at it.
2006-08-14 03:15:17 · answer #9 · answered by Mikey 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah your kidding yourself just ease off from her and give her the space that she wants and see how it goes from there
2006-08-14 03:15:09 · answer #10 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋