we have been dating for a 1yr and a half and this is his fasnasty to have a one time only threesome that's it
2006-08-14 02:53:37 · 12 answers · asked by holiday 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have two rules:
1. No hurting
2. No menage a trois (or more) - sex is 1on1 game.
Everything else is possible. So, answer on your question is:
He can change his fantasy!
2006-08-14 03:07:17 · answer #1 · answered by no one 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on how secure you are in your relationship with him. If you trust that this is just going to be a one time thing and he will get it out of his system and its something that YOU WANT to do then I think you should consider it. Besides its good the try new things. But just know that many guys get their fantasies like that fulfilled and then end up having a relationship on the side with the third party, or end up wanting to have threesomes ALL the time. Another possibility is that the third party will try to take your man if he's good. Whatever you chose be careful and protect yourself.
2006-08-14 10:01:40 · answer #2 · answered by tweetybird3083 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did it come about that you found out this fantasy of your boyfriends?
I personally would not fufil a threesome fantasy of my boyfriend's, especially if it included one of my own friends.
Nothing will be the same even if it is only one time.
He shouldn't even ask or pressure you to do that either.
2006-08-14 10:00:05 · answer #3 · answered by anabele6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a touchy subject. How open is your relationship with your boyfriend? If you are even considering this, have you laid down the ground rules? Ex....he can watch you and your girlfriend only or he is only allowed to have sex with you but can touch your friend as much as he wants or will it be the whole shebang? Things like this require lots of TRUST in a relationship and it usually is never a one time thing.....ask him if he was in your shoes, being the girlfriend, would he agree to doing it?
2006-08-14 09:58:59 · answer #4 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's a lot of fun, buuuutt......be very careful of the 2nd girl. I don't know how jealous you are, but in that situation, I think we ALL get a little insecure. So, just make sure that YOU pick the other girl, and that she doesn't make you feel inferior in ANY way...I know it sounds kind of kinky, but I would really suggest someone neither of you know.
2006-08-14 09:59:49 · answer #5 · answered by Sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Some things should remain a fantasy. No one gets hurt that way.
2006-08-14 10:01:02 · answer #6 · answered by Avid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO i wanted my bf know how i feel about that i can't picture my bf having sex with one of my fiends then what if he leave me for her or them to start having sex behind my back these are things you have to think about i don't know if i could do that now if that's something you want to do then do it but ask him really why he wants to do something like that
2006-08-14 09:59:42 · answer #7 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one time only is it? then next time it's just one more time etc. please. if it was my boyfriend i would break up with him, but that's just me. if you want to go for it it's really your choice, but rather have someone neither of you are friends with to avoid having a friend who's slept with the same guy as you. let alone one you're still dating.
2006-08-14 10:09:22 · answer #8 · answered by sugar_lilly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! You're obviously not enough of a woman for him...bring in some girls, guys and animals!
2006-08-14 09:59:43 · answer #9 · answered by Just askn with a smile 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree, adding anyone to the mix is dangerous expecially if its one of your friends
2006-08-14 09:58:48 · answer #10 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋