from the past issues, abt my boyfriend changing. i finally find out that he as a girlfriend apart from me. but he denyed it. i over hear him on the phone talking and he says to her, i missed you and i love u too. and i made him know that i heard him rigt there, but he denyed it and say he loves me but that person does not exit, he does not really mean wat he say over the phone, but i dont belive it and i still love him, and he say he loves me too. but i cant just trust him anymore. wat should i do now.
2006-08-14 02:52:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have been in that situation, currently as a matter of fact. as of today, i have had it, im done with it, and you should be as well. bc in the long run ull be happier without him. it'll hurt for a while, like it has with me, but id rather b miserable for a few weeks than to miserable with him doing **** like that and me always mistrusting him for the REST OF UR LIFE?! i mean, do you want to live your life like that? i dont, so im falling hard, but looking out for my future and best interests right now. move on, its the only thing and tthe right thing to do. they did it once, they will more than likely do it again. specially if you stay w him! (after that!) ur nuts!
2006-08-14 03:01:28 · answer #1 · answered by kkaze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you, he wouldn't run around on you. To say that he loves anyone else, meaning it or not, isn't right. You have to ask yourself, what you really want in a relationship and wuestion if you're going to get it with him. You love him yes, but it doesn't mean much inless it goes both ways. I'd leave. Life can be so short, so why be missreable?
2006-08-14 10:00:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to decide if your love for him means more to you than your own peace of mind. A man can only do what you allow him to do and if you let him cheat on you or disrespect you then he will continue to do it. Yes you love him sweetie but first you must love yourself enough to know that you deserve better. Good luck.
2006-08-14 09:58:44 · answer #3 · answered by lovelee1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May I ask why you would want to be with someone you can't trust? Why you would want to be with someone who can't totally love YOU? Do you think you are that unworthy of a person that you would allow him to treat you this way?
It's obvious he's no good. But you may have the bigger problem.
2006-08-14 09:59:08 · answer #4 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in the same situation, i was w/ my ex for about 3 years, & from the beginning i was kinda suspscious but had no proof, till his cousin accidentaly started talking about the other girl. & slowly i started finding out more stuff. i was stupid & stayed, then i realized he was still doing it i wasnt happy anymore, cause i always had that feeling like if he wasnt talking to me well is he talking to her. you know stuff like that. then i got out of the releationship, but i wasted so many years & time on him. when i should of ended when i found out, in the beginning. i know it's going to hurt, but you have to be strong, dont make the same mistake i did. & waste so many years on releationship thats not going to work. good luck...
2006-08-14 10:22:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its this simple been in the same situation if theres no trust theres no relationship believe me if you cought him yo self then you kno what you heard he will continue to talk to her so just leave him alone its goin to take a min to get over him but its in your best intreast to just leave him alone so dont keep gettin heart aches and head aches
2006-08-14 09:59:05 · answer #6 · answered by Trap 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hope it's just your suspicious mind that is working against you, so let it go.
If he is a "First class jerk", let him out of your sight. You are doing nothing but hurting yourself. Commitment for a relationship is very important and if he can't commit, he is not ready.
2006-08-14 10:01:32 · answer #7 · answered by j t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him to the curb. You know he is a cheater and a liar. It is slapping you in the face. Wake up and move on!
2006-08-14 09:57:37 · answer #8 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust is the root of a good relationship. if you dont trust him you are not going to work
2006-08-14 09:57:31 · answer #9 · answered by babygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call up the show cheaters
2006-08-14 09:57:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋