alright, so I do really like my girlfriend and definitely want to keep going out with her, but I have an opportunity for a bit of "action on the side" with a really REALLY hot girl (like we're talking supermodel hot), although she's not anyone I would go out with or anything. Think I should do it? seems like a once in a lifetime opportunity to me.
2006-08-14 02:44:49 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ewwwwwwww not if your 800 pounds- why would you even have a girlfriend that pretty?
2006-08-15 02:31:25 · answer #1 · answered by Miss America 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If you are thinking so seriously about cheating on your girlfriend, perhaps you should think about breaking up with her. If you care more about having sex with a supermodel then you do about her you are wasting her time. "Action on the side" is not a statement that goes hand in hand with a serious relationship. It is never okay to cheat. How horrible, the thought of you coming home after having your male organ inside another woman and then putting it inside your girlfriend. It is awful. When a person is truly in love with someone they wouldn't want to hurt them that way. Your selfishness could leave her with lasting emotional trauma and trust issues.
Your choice is to leave her and have this so called "great experience" with the model (which by the way will probably suck b/c she just likes the game of getting you and is probably not very good in bed) or forget the model and work on treating your girlfriend with the respect she deserves.
Personally the fact that you are asking shows that you are apprehensive, anyone who says it's okay to cheat is wrong. It's never okay.
2006-08-14 02:59:44 · answer #2 · answered by WWJD 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look if you have to ask us then you already feel a little guilt. If you truly love the girl you're with now then think about her in the arms of another man. If you only like her a little then you need to leave this girlfriend and move on. Don't break her heart because you want a little strange with a beautiful woman. It's not worth it. Be true to yourself and you will then be true to the woman in your life. THINK ABOUT WHAT IS RIGHT... even if the girlfriend never finds out...YOU will know what kind of boyfriend you have become. Good luck with your choice.
2006-08-14 03:01:04 · answer #3 · answered by Tee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it, Justin. Temptation is common but if you go for it, you will feel pretty bad about it later not to mention, it will put you down the path of unfaithful practice.
What trophy do you get out of it? You could lose your girlfriend. You could get a disease, who knows. This model chick could be a man who had a sex change! You don't even know her.
Another thing, you would be soul tying with a complete stranger. And your girlfriend will feel it. She WILL know.
I want to encourage you to be a good guy and practice being faithful because there aren't enough men in this world with morals.
Love will help you grow stronger. Lust can destroy a good thing.
2006-08-14 03:06:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I noticed you said you really liked your girlfriend you never said you loved her. If you plan on turning like into love then no I wouldn't think it would be the smartest thing to do. I would hope that if you don't want to turn like into love, then you would have enough respect for her and yourself not to lead her on and go for the once in a lifetime thing. But remember no one can predict the future, so you may loose something that you find out in the long run that you really needed.
2006-08-14 02:57:40 · answer #5 · answered by star110772000 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, the key word in your statement was "Like" your girlfriend. I wouldn't be in a relationship with anyone who I just "Liked". I guess that's why you feel it's alright to have a little side action, huh? Do yourself and your girlfriend a favor leave the other woman alone and then think very deeply about your relationship if you love her and would like to be with her. If the answers take some time and you to convince yourself leave your gf! Don't string her along while you try and find reasons to like her enough to love her and why you like another woman enough to have sex with the other woman!
2006-08-14 02:59:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure, if you don't mind being a disgusting horrible pig.
Your girlfriend WILL find out and it will be over. You won't respect yourself and shouldn't.
Have you ever thought that you might be using this 'supermodel hot' girl for your own selfish gain? Why would you even consider this? Sick.
2006-08-14 02:49:48 · answer #7 · answered by PRETTYGIRL 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
An hour ago you CLAIMED to have 5 girlfriends you are dating at once and thought that was "COOL" Like I asked before when does school start? And according to your question about cooking and eating the faimly dog you said you have a 5 year old daughter?
2006-08-14 03:21:53 · answer #8 · answered by Star of Florida 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
think twice about this honey what goes around comes around the grass isnt always greener on the other side apparently u dont love her bc if u did u wouldnt ask anyone this question
leave the tramp alone and dont hurt ur girl what happens in the dark always comes to the light not what u wanted to here huh
2006-08-14 02:51:36 · answer #9 · answered by greyeyebeauty81 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't, unless you truly don't value your current relationship. Take your girlfriends feelings into consideration, if anything at least break it off and then see if you still feel the same about this "supermodel" Don't do it, if she's not someone you wouldn't normally pursue.
2006-08-14 02:50:26 · answer #10 · answered by shae 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Justin Green, if you do it you are a BIG JERK! Yeah, as above, would you be happy if your girlfriend came on here and asked the exact same question about another guy? REALLY, WOULD YOU? Would YOU want to keep seeing her then? Grrrrrr men are such untrustworthy jerks. I soooo love being single.
2006-08-14 02:52:24 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋