2006-08-14 02:42:09 · 7 answers · asked by ruby433c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that is becoz all guys are dumb and they are always looking for other gals..they can never be committed to one for life..its like even if they have a diamond in their hands they go searching for specks of sand elsewhere..
2006-08-14 02:46:40 · answer #1 · answered by purple_spark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a psychological and logical thing.
Psychologically it's really simple, when you want a new toy. You want it so badly. You would do anything for that new toy. Now you get the new toy, your so exicited, so happy. You play with all the features and buttons on it. It's your most fav. toy in the whole world. But after awhile, it starts to get boring, because the toy can only do a few things, and you've done everything you can possiblely do with that toy, eventually you get so bored that you toss it somewhere, and want a new toy.
I know it's the childish way of putting this, but we all have our inner childs, and simple ways of explaining things are the best ways. So well psychologically on a complex level of boyfriend and girlfriend. If the girl or boy doesn't do anything new, the relationship starts to get boring. So well he will cherrish her, until it becomes a repetive thing. I mean that's why you should always take things slow. Relationships have more meaning and last longer that way.
On a logical level we all want to have fun and exiciting lives. Some more than others. We all want companionship. But well if you go day after day, of seeing your girlfriend, talking to her, making out with her, having sex with her, calling her, then the next day same thing. It seems more like a job then a relationship. That's why you need to take things slow. And experience new things. I mean people shun the whole movie and dinner, and walking a girl home. I mean it's old fashion, everybody wants to have sex on the first date, kissing a girl is a must now. Nobody has patience anymore.
So well if you want a guy to cherish you forever, give him reasons to. Same thing with guys wanting a girl that will want him forever. So if you remember to take things slow, don't rush anything, enjoy each and every moment you have with that person, and always try to find new ways to mix it up alittle. You'll never get bored, and you'll always enjoy being with that person.
2006-08-14 09:54:50 · answer #2 · answered by Khalil S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy will not cherish you if he didn't love you to begin with. Guys chase after girls and once they get what they want if no love was involved he looses interest in her and even cheats on her. If your guy really loves you he will cherish you no matter what.
2006-08-14 10:00:08 · answer #3 · answered by Ycul72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys do.Some dont coz they find it hard(shy may be).It's normal.refer to the saying:you dont know what you have till you loose it.(uh but in somes cases you dont have to reach the losing part.Just openess
required).Some dont coz mayb they have her for all the wrong reasons.
2006-08-14 09:55:11 · answer #4 · answered by ntaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly dont know. But, my theory is simple, guys want what they cant have, and as soon as you give them what they want, they dont want it anymore.
2006-08-14 09:45:58 · answer #5 · answered by ~*~Jeni~*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because now that he has her he don't know how special she is and when she's gone that's when he wants to come running back
2006-08-14 09:45:28 · answer #6 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats what i wanna know too
2006-08-14 09:48:19 · answer #7 · answered by Lindsey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋