i feel i m not good enough in my job?

Question

i m shy. unable to be free & social with every one since my colleage's hus behaved badly with me. pls help me out of sorrow

Answer 1

ur not at work to make friends.. ur at work to do ur job and get paid.. don't take one bad experience and think they all will be bad experiences..

if u don't feel comfortable around him, let him know, let the wife know to.. and then i'd avoid both of them.. say hi and keep it moving..

don't be discouraged from making new friends...

Answer 2

Why don't you feel good enough they thought you were good enough obviously if they hired you! I don't want you to take this the wrong way but employers get a bit disinterested when they sense a lack of confidence it makes them feel your not competent enough to get the job done. With that said do your best and remember it's a job not your social well being. So do the job and do it with confidence after all you are "Woman"! As for the jerk you could always just kill him with looks okay you know the "mess with me and you will get it look"!

Answer 3

Donot worry.it is not a big problem.Be with in youself,be confident,donot worry about what others are thinking about you.pls if the bad behave of colleage is not Xing the limit take it as apart of life.Try to be more strong in your attitude.they will stop it

Answer 4

hey that is a part of management to became a success full person in life avoid it, and never avoid the persons who are behaving badly with u in office this is big challenge for you to give them answer concentrate on yours job and make a friendly environment be happy, live yours own life don't bother them. if you want ot be successfull in life then you should be accepted these types of challenges.mind never avoid those persons............
meaning of managment is" to manage something"

Answer 5

Becoming a star may not be your destiny, but being the best that you can be is a goal that you can set for yourselves.so go on set your goals and always remember the more you fall the higher you rise

Answer 6

hey this is a small matter

i think they r jealous of u. dont mind their works becoz they do not do any work and they tease u for sadistic pleasure. when they talk ill of u do not mind them and do someother work.they will shut their mouths automatically. they r just provoking u.

Answer 7

first..dont decide u cant change.. many girls face problem like this in ther life, some girls with there close relation.
just write down what positive and good things happen in your life, dream i how u enjoyed on that time..
REMEMBER YOUR ARE BORN TO LIVE
AND NOT LIVING BECAUSE YOU ARE BORN

Answer 8

Why do you pay so much attention to what your colleague's husband did to you ! There are other colleagues at your workplace; build professional relationship with them.

Answer 9

Try to avoid that person and do your work to best possible.

Answer 10

do not worry. avoid bad people. do your work with a great amount of interest