Um.. is it bad when its ur 23rd birthday and you've never been in a relationship.?

Question

you know, when you can't even imagine living with anyone else. all i can attract is dirty dumb whores who smell. its so depressing i want to scream. umm yes

Answer 1

Maybe your gay. Look into that and experiment.

Answer 2

With your comment about dirty dumb whores perhaps it is best that you have never been in a relationship. We are all human (I think) and I feel sorry for the people you just described as I am sure God didn't make them the way they are. Search within yourself for a little empathy for your fellow human beings. Grow up and mature and reexamine how you feel. Women tend to feel sorry for dumb animals but stupid animals stand no chance at all.

Answer 3

Not at all. My wife and I met when I was 31. She was my first girlfriend, kiss, wife and lover. There is nothing wrong with waiting to find the woman/man. Believe me I know your pain. As a man who was a 32 year old virgin, I know what you're going through but in all honesty I am much happier than I would have been sleeping around with anyone who had a heartbeat.

Hang in there and wait for the right one it is completely worth the wait.

Answer 4

Yes it shows a detachment from society and a real disassociate tendency. Do you think of violent acts when masturbating? Does degradation of others turn you on? These are things that the disassociate personality can lead too. Get some therapy and develop some empathy for the common man, or live your entire life alone.

Answer 5

Nah dude. You're still young man. Life is full of surprises and there's more down the road for you. You're not even half a century old and you're thinking like that? Man! Is better to find the perfect one rather than jump into a relationship with some idiot who wastes away your life and money

Answer 6

You're probably just looking in the wrong places.

It's not the end of the world or anything but I suppose it is about time you give the whole relationship world a try. It's so easy to attract people when you just relax.

Answer 7

First of all, no it isn't bad at all. Second, good for you that you see thee girls for what they are, even though you were a little harsh in your description. But stand back and take a look at YOU instead of them, why are you attracting those kind of women? I bet a little change, maybe in dress or attitude would help attract the right kind of women. THey see something they can relate to in you, so switch it around and let the nice girls see great things in you. Good luck!

Answer 8

Guess its perfectly ok. Give urself more time n dont keep looking for things to happen. It will when the time comes. Just chilllllllll n enjoy life the way u want. Life is fine even without relationships.

Answer 9

It just means you have higher standards for the 'right girl' to be serious about. Obviously, you know that you don't want to be with a dirty dumb whore (DDW), so why waste your time? Find a girl who has the values and qualities you're looking for, you won't find her if you're distracted by the DDW's. ;)

Answer 10

It isn't bad, but maybe it is time you should think of doing something about it. There are a lot of things taht help to attrackt girls :
1. make sure you're clean, well dressed and nicely cut
2. do enough sports so that you're physically fit
3. make sure you have a good job and work seriously, save up som emoney
4. don't be shy :)

Answer 11

Nothing wrong with that. If you are socializing regualrly and have friends to hang with you are gettting the things you need to be normal and healthy. If you don't hve a GF because you spend your time on the stupid computer then you need to re-work your brain and get a life.