She's got a kid who's 11. (My friends point out that I'm closer in age to her kid than I am to her.) She's kind of hot and I could definitely hit that if I wanted to. should I?
2006-08-14 02:16:31 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ewwwwwwwwww not if your 800 pounds!!!!
2006-08-15 02:29:19 · answer #1 · answered by Miss America 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 21, you work and you have a secretary???!!!!!!! Remember that it is best to keep personal relationships seperated from work enviorment. What is this big hang up about age differences anyway. Also, what goes on between the sheets should be between the two people between the sheets only. Friends are friends but that doesn't mean you tell them everything as private information is just what it means.
2006-08-14 02:42:05 · answer #2 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think ur cutting it close.. age has nothing to do w/it in this situations cause ur not looking for a relationship and u both r adults..
but u should try to sleep w/someone who's not an employee.. just imagine how ugly this can turn out to be and remember that u have to still see this person every day that u work.. the last thing u wanna be is dipping and dodging and having a shi t t y
a s s day cause of this chick..
i'd find somebody else to sleep with..
2006-08-14 02:20:55 · answer #3 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your immaturity is showing. You haven't been around long enough to know that workplace romances seldom work out. And just imagine what's going to happen when everyone else at work finds out about it! And of course they will -- don't be so naive to think that they won't. And what about when the good times end? Won't that make coming to work such fun?
And finally, have you never heard of sexual harrassment? You start a relationship with your secretary and you will eventually find yourself sued or fired.
2006-08-14 02:21:30 · answer #4 · answered by kja63 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You better hurry up yesterday she was 34 ! SHE IS AGING pretty fast! When does school start back up in your area? Go play cops and robbers or whatever! And according to another question you posted you have a 5 year old daughter. And you are so broke you want to cook and eat the faimly dog.
2006-08-14 03:18:28 · answer #5 · answered by Star of Florida 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you crazy? She is probably married with three kids. She is just old and want a young fling. You should best stay with you age range. Most of the times in cases like this the women is longly or depressed.
2006-08-14 02:20:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The thing is she is your secretary and it could cause problems at work but, if u don't care about that then go for it and let the chips fall as they may
2006-08-14 02:22:50 · answer #7 · answered by Wiseguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what ... I waisted my time encouraging you to be a decent guy after you asked if you should sleep with a model chick and cheat on your girlfriend.
You must just be horny or something and can't get none. And you're making up all these delusional fantasies.
Your sick. Go get help!
2006-08-14 03:32:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's an old saying.... it's usually not a good idea to $hit where you eat .... if you get my meaning.
If feelings change and they will, work could become a place your not going to want to look forward to.... not to mention company liability. If your employers figure it out would your job / career be at risk?
Be careful.....
2006-08-14 02:23:47 · answer #9 · answered by Michael D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 21 and you've got a secretary huh? Good fantasy.
I believe they are called admin assistants nowadays. You would know that if you got a job.
2006-08-14 02:20:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Simply a one night stand? I think not. You have to work with this woman every day. I would not get involved unless you are going to get involved. Any relationship at work is generally difficult one based solely on "hitting it" is going to be far more difficult.
2006-08-14 02:20:12 · answer #11 · answered by kyrie_eleison_gr 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋