I have thought I was a lesbian since like 3rd grade because I have never even looked at guys like that at all and only like girls. Iam involved with a different girl everytime I turn around and Iam kinda girl crazy! But now I think Iam starting to get feelings for this guy...He is "friends with benefits" with this girl I REALLY like so I thought I'd keep my enemy close and get to know him when she left to washington. But I got drunk with him the other night and found out he had intrest in me. I made out with him a couple times that night and I think I could be falling for him. He calls me about once a day wondering if I can hangout with him.I think about him alot now but I only think i might like him. I do think he is really attractive but he doesn't turn me on as much as a girl does. Is all this weird? Is having feelings for this guy normal? I don't think Iam bi because I never check out guys at all...Just this one...????
2006-08-14 02:00:44 · 9 answers · asked by Faye 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have done stuff with guys before and Iam not even a virgin to them at all and I have never felt an attraction to them at all. Except for this guy...and he is not girly...I think Iam lesbian...but I do like this guy...I think
2006-08-14 02:09:52 · update #1
Iam 17 years old
2006-08-14 02:16:13 · update #2
Interesting situation. I think he intrigues you because of his interests and personality. I do think you're lesbian and nothing can change that. I would suggest that you be upfront asap with this guy, tell him that you are lesbian mostly because you don't want to hurt him. Something definitely has clicked between you two, if you were straight he probably would "be the one" and I'm sure he's feeling the same about you. You definitely do not want to hurt him.
Good luck to you!!
2006-08-14 02:05:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be perfectly normal. You might have been straight (or bi) the whole time. Allow yourself to "experiment" if you have to, alot of girls tend to go through that moment in life where the question what feelings they have about other people. You may only find yourself attracted to this one guy, or you may later find that you were attracted to many guys and didnt realize it until now.
2006-08-14 02:08:23 · answer #2 · answered by lacia2159 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think its weird at all. Is this guy towards the "girly" side?? Or maybe you are bi but you havent ever really given guys the chance so you dont truly know. Whatever you are just do what makes you feel good.
2006-08-14 02:06:14 · answer #3 · answered by HeLLoThEre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you never know your real sexual preferences untill you fall in love with someone. I for instance feel like i am a heterosexual, but i can never be sure because i havent fallen in love with a woman yet. It is possible! Maybe you found out that sometimes you do like men. Is that weird? Nope just natural feelings thats all.
2006-08-14 02:05:53 · answer #4 · answered by Joyce R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not wierd. You just love him. It's natural. He seems to understand you in a way that woman may not be able to. Women can only take you so far because people have their limits. You will find his limits and get bored soon enough. Don't commit to him so he doesn't come a stalking.
2006-08-14 02:07:54 · answer #5 · answered by Tabulah Erassa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not really that you're bi its just your hormones playing tricks on you. Nothing really to worrie about its just your trying something different try tell your parents and see there reation they might not take it the way you think.
2006-08-14 02:46:46 · answer #6 · answered by Mitchy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So whats wrong with being Bi? Go with it.
2006-08-14 02:03:54 · answer #7 · answered by Rick 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmm, how old are u?? maybe u are bi or not really a les
2006-08-14 02:14:52 · answer #8 · answered by vedz666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so now you are bi....make up your mind!!!!!!
2006-08-14 02:04:04 · answer #9 · answered by jeremiah s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋