I recently worked for a male doctor (was his temporary secretary). I sensed that he liked me, as he asked me what I was doing for the weekend. On another occasion, he walked into the office and commented on how nice my perfume smelt. I thought he was going to ask me out any minute, but the phone rang one afternoon and a lady’s voice said, "Can you tell Dr ………….to meet me for the theatre at 6.30". I was heartbroken. I subsequently left the job (as it was a temp one) and have seen this Dr again. On one or two occasions, he has been at the exact same time and place I pass when I leave work at night. Should I just ignore him, let him make the first move, or what?
2006-08-14 01:52:58 · 28 answers · asked by Say It Like You Mean It 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stay away from him, he will break your heart,
2006-08-14 01:57:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I presume you are both adults and that you are both single - so next time you see him in the same place at the same time - why not ask if fancies .... a drink before heading home. If he says yes - you're in with a chance, if he takes a raincheck then there's a possibility (depending on whether the raincheck comes off), if he blows you out completely you're no worse off than having to find another route home.
If you do have a casual drink end the night by suggesting you do it again and swapping numbers. It's 2006 - go for it ....
2006-08-14 01:57:49 · answer #2 · answered by geegee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that you're placing far too much importance on him making polite conversation when you worked with him - I think the weekend and perfume remarks were just him being polite rather than leading on to anything further.
He's obviously already got a female partner so he's unlikely to be looking for someone and as for being in the same place at the same time twice - he's not exactly stalking you!
I would get on with your life, find a guy who likes you and go from there.
2006-08-14 02:07:19 · answer #3 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he wear a wedding ring?
The lady who called and left the message for the Doctor could have been anyone from a girlfriend, sister, mother, daughter, cousin, aunt, etc.
If you see him again, why not ask him out for coffee. If he goes, then you can talk to him over coffee and learn more about him and get a feel if he's interested in you or not.
I wouldn't wait for any guy to ask you out, because some men are shy and not good at those things.
2006-08-14 01:58:02 · answer #4 · answered by anabele6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you jumped to the wrong conclusion - it may have been his sister or a female relative, it may have been his ex, it may even have referred to the OPERATING theatre (seeing as how he's a doctor). Don't ignore him when you see him, you worked for him so it would be natural to say hello and ask how things are going. Tell him that you really enjoyed working for him and would love to return if there was ever a chance ... maybe he will let slip about what he thought of you as a result of that.
2006-08-14 01:58:50 · answer #5 · answered by Preppybthefirst 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him, a question isn't going to hurt anything. If he is single and wants a little something with you I think its well worth it, a economically stable suitor that intelligent and kind and looks for details like a lady's perfume, shoot he seems like a winner! Now if he is married, I don't know about that. I personally wouldn't feel good about that situation. But whatever works for you sweetie...but first of all talk to him and sees why so many "coincidences" have been going on...
2006-08-14 01:57:38 · answer #6 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 06:13:42 · answer #7 · answered by wheelwright 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those questions you quote can be "passing time" questions.
I ask (male) workmates how their weekend was, and also comment if they are wearing nice cologne. I'm not gay!
There would have to be more about your encounters for me to think something was going to happen. Think you'd better wait for his first move - you could embarass yourself severely. But as everyone says, unless you take risks you won't get anywhere in life!
2006-08-14 01:57:37 · answer #8 · answered by ◄ Mal ► 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was probably being called to the operating theatre, not the acting theatre! As you worked for him, you must know his email address... why not drop him a friendly email asking how he is etc. If he's into you you'll soon know! Good luck!
2006-08-14 01:57:56 · answer #9 · answered by Roxy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
r u kidding?
he's a doctor!!
get it girl
the woman on the phone was probably just a flavor of the week.
have fun trying to win him over. if you're serious about him.
he's probably ready to start settling down since he's done so much with his life already, he's looking for a complete, ya know!
2006-08-14 01:58:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could casually ask if he would like to have coffee or a drink to unwind. Be careful--he may be already involved and may just want to fool around. I hate to say this about Drs, but I work with many and even though most of them are dedicate and work hard to care for their pts, when it comes to "women," they think they are "god." Many of them exhibit "Bad behavior" when it comes to dating!
2006-08-14 01:59:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋