2006-08-14 01:50:59 · 20 answers · asked by queen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the best thing to do is to hold back. try to find some evidence that he may be cheating on you. like spending lots of time on the internet. txt messeges or dissapearing or a change in his behavior or appearance. then you will be able to confront him if you choose to do so and he cant deny it. if you was to confront him without any real evidence its likely that he would deny it and that would mess your head up even more.
it could also be that he has done nothing and its your fear that he may do it that scares you. in which case you should work on yourself and try to understand why you feel insecure about the relationship. it thats the case i think the best thing to do would be to talk about him about your fears and the way you are feeling.
2006-08-14 01:59:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to ask yourself why you are having these thoughts. I mean has he not been affectionate as he usually was? Has he not been around lately as much as he once was? Weird phone calls? There has to be a reason. Secondly a gut feeling about something is usually the correct one. I have been right not only about relationships but other things - almost all the time. Never trusted it before until everyone told me to and it has always been true. Trust your first instinct its usually the right one
2006-08-14 08:54:14 · answer #2 · answered by SxyPR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't trust him, then you don't really have a relationship. I have had bf's that drove me crazy because I couldn't trust them. Even a few that I was sure I was in love with. For a long time I thought it was me, but then I met the love of my life. When you have something real, the trust will be there. So get rid of him, there are plenty of other guys out there.
2006-08-14 09:04:26 · answer #3 · answered by kt367521 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not insane.Maybe he did smth to disappoint you and now you keep thinking that he is gonna do that again.
I was on your shoes 2 years ago. There was no remedy for that. We kept fighting every day.
But, this because he cheated on me, and from that moment on, I couln't trust him anymore.
I'm sorry to say that, but there is nothing you can do about it. The only way is to break up and find a nice a trusworthy guy, who respects and loves you unconditionally.
The best of luck
2006-08-14 09:09:07 · answer #4 · answered by atrabel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't trust him. The only way that you will get past it is if he proves he is trustworthy. You are not insane just worried about getting hurt. Has he given you a reason to think he is cheating? If so tell him that it bothers you and talk it out with him.
2006-08-14 08:53:41 · answer #5 · answered by kyrie_eleison_gr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I truly believe that if you feel like he is cheating, he is...Watch Out!!! I mena if two people are really in tune with each other you will knwo such things off the bat. Thank god you are feeling these things, question him about it and if you don't want to ask, look for details and little changes that make those actions clearer and confront him!
2006-08-14 08:55:20 · answer #6 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't have any solid basis regarding this and just pure suspicions try to ask yourself why? If you cannot find the perfect answer, ask him or if you are afraid, learn to trust him and eventually the truth will come out in the open.
2006-08-14 08:55:42 · answer #7 · answered by Rona 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you been cheated on or hurt in the past? You need to discuss this with your bf. Tell him what happened in your past. He'll be compassionate toward you and hopefully take you in his arms and hold you tight and help alleviate the insecurities you are having.
2006-08-14 09:00:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
more like paranoid if you dont know if hes done anything at all, if hes done it in the past, and you feel like somethings happening again, most likely, he is. men are dogs naturally looking at all the other bitches. dont put up with it, there are alot of good ones out there. just ask him already. how long are you going to let him make you feel like this? put you first for once!
2006-08-14 08:55:08 · answer #9 · answered by groverlovers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not insane your insecure,girl the moment you realize your bf is lucky to have you he will be the one thats insane
2006-08-14 08:55:17 · answer #10 · answered by rodarball 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋