how do i get my annoying sis 2 stop annoying me?

Question

she's 10 and i'm 14 and whenever i do something 2 her i get told off but whenever she bugs the hell outta me 'she's only 10'.

yeah, but then i get told off coz i'm mature enough to ignore woteva she does apparently, but half the time she does it when they're out the room, then i tell her 2 shurrup n she squeals like a 2 yr old n even if i ant done owt they tell me off

i've tried tellin them but they just go on about "she's not the fav coz u always get 2 go out with ur mates on ur own n she doesn't n we let u cook n we let u get more pocket money..." but they buy her more toys anyway so she technically does get more, then they just say stuff like, but we bought you a mobile phone last year, yeah but with the amount of toys you bought her it's probably slightly more, or at least equal.

Answer 1

tell your parents that you are sick and tired of being blamed, and that she is being more annoying than you can take, do not go into details. Tell them that unless they parent her more, and base there descisions upon proof, not guess work, that you will no longer speak to her at all, and will ignore her totally, perhaps even disowning her. This might get their attention. Or you could just live with the brat, and start playing silly jokes on her like hiding her stuff, so she spends her time searching for stuff.

Answer 2

Oh honey although I have to say I sympathize with you I don't. My 13 year old daughter goes through the same thing with her sister. I think some times what the older sibling fails to remember is that your younger sibling idolizes you. I have a feeling that when she was a baby you cooed and played and tagged her along alot. But now that she's older YUCK right? She doesn't see YUCK , what she sees is her mentor so to speak and she wants to be JUST LIKE YOU!!! Try not being so annoyed with her, one day as you grow older and you do wrong people will look at all your wrong doings but your sister WONT. She's still going to see the big sister that she has ALWAYS loved and looked up to, she will no doubt always have your back, be your shoulder to lean on, pretty much the most valued relationship you will ever have. Think about how you would feel if something happened and you no longer had her. It would devastate you, right? For the time I know she's annoying but try to also remember YOU were once annoying too (how easy we forget). Instead for the time being when she starts tagging along or bugging try saying "hey you want to do me a big favor?" Then head her to do a task that will give you a break. maybe like say "Mom needs the table cleaned off really bad if you can clean it off I'll set it for dinner." Just try different things, My daughter tells her sis that she watched the funniest movie and wants her to see it (that usually gains her at least an hour to 90 minutes of freedom) Try being the "Bigger" sister and see what happens.

Answer 3

there are 4 yrs. difference in age between my son and daughter (9&5). The sibling rivalry between the two is unbearable. Usually she is to blame. Girls are more temperamental and twice as confusing. She does ANYTHING possible to get attention. Although you two may have absolutely nothing in common, try to find a happy medium. Bribe her with some 'big sister/brother' play time. The more you try to push her out of the way, the more she is going to bother you. Slip back in time and indulge her from time to time. Talk to your parents about the things she's doing with the "child who cried wolf". After all she is 10, but she is old enough to know what she's doing. Slapping her back sounds like a really good idea, it's not the solution to the problem. If she is interested in some of the same things that you were at that age, slip back in time and indulge her from time to time. Odds are she is only trying to be like you and her eyes, there's no one in the world like you. One of these days you will need her and she won't be there. Don't be so quick to mistake annoyance for attention and jealousy. One day she may turn out to be your best friend. Best of luck.

Answer 4

Change your WHOLE attitude with this.....and stop that cussing (at 14). You need to be nice and involve her in some of your activities.....she's doing this for attention ya know. She wants to be like big Sis. Have a hair and make-up session, take a walk together, let her try on some of your favorite clothes.....anything but be NICE....it will pass

Answer 5

I have the same problem and my sis is 6 and im 11 but i just go upstairs in my room and lock my door until i know she'll stop buging me and then i get out and tell my parents i need a life!!!! cause she never lets me go to my friends house or anywhere i have to sneak out ALWAYS!!!! and my parents always say No cause of my sis

Answer 6

Your sister is looking for attention from you and since that is the only way she has been able to get it....that's what she does. If you ask her to help you do something, or ask her if she'd like to watch a movie with you, or even teach her to dance...anything that you can do together....she will finally stop and you will have peace...plus you'll actually become friends.

Answer 7

Ask your parents to sit down and talk to you about it. Maybe you can work something out with them. Also, try sitting down with your sister and talking to her. This will show your parents that you are acting in a mature fashion and maybe they will understand that you really have a point. Good luck!

Answer 8

Ignore her - go to your room, go out, pretend she does not exist regardless of what she does - using an old fashioned phrase 'send her to Coventry'. It's suprising how quickly being ignored can get to a person - even a 10 year old.

Answer 9

Sorry, pal, but little sisters were born to annoy their elder siblings. Mine's 16 and I'm 21 and she's been annoying me for years. Just live with it, she should get bored.

Should.

Answer 10

You are the one that is annoyed, not her, so it is you who must change your attitude. She is not trying to annoy you, actually she probably craves for you to like her, she is probably desperate for your acceptance. You have to change your whole approach to her, i noticed with my younger sister that we had behaved in such a way for so long that it became natural for us to argue. I had to really consciously re-programme my responses to her actions, which felt fake at first but now it is wonderful, i appreciate her so much and regret how mean i was in the past.