I'll admit, Im not a super handsome guy, But I do feel that Im not totally ugly. anyways how on earth do I get a gf? lol
I mean, yeah I know ask her out or whatever, but Im not good with girls any ideas? thanks
2006-08-14 01:26:47 · 17 answers · asked by bob l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes...when time comes...my mum used to tell me that no matter how ugly(me) a person is,there is always another half waiting for him/her...good luck
2006-08-14 01:29:54 · answer #1 · answered by Thong 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look buddy, u just do not have to prepare for having a gf. and hey, what do u mean by a gf??? tell me that. i m also not that grt looking, but still u have to be ur natural self. never mimick anyone. every person has something or the other as a quality, just try to find that quality in u. and yes, wen u r able to do that, u will find the gals around u. not just to flirt. i m just talking of a serious relationship. i also love someone, and she also likes me as a grt friend. life is too short to fight. just be friendly, calm. and be a simple person. each n every time, being a very cool n flirty person does not pay.
so,
get
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gooooooo
take care n keep smiling 4ever
2006-08-14 01:35:48 · answer #2 · answered by madhur 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..... I am not great looking either. And, you probably don't want a woman that is only into for your looks anyway. Just be yourself and you'll find the girl thats out there looking for you too. Just be confident, funny, and understanding. A great personality will get you much further than looks.
I am sure all guys want a hot woman too, just like girls want the hot guys. I was fortunate to have a hottie for over a year..... Man what a tonne of work. Looks is literally all she had. So don't base anything on looks. So let the woman go and have their hunks and get treated like crap....when they realize this is more than just looks.... you and me will pick them up and show them how they are suppose to be treated. :)
2006-08-14 01:58:27 · answer #3 · answered by President25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
loosen up, play the field, go out and experience new things.
don't spend so much time dwelling on the absentee g/f, have fun while you're still young? sound young. and just remember to be a gentleman, not a kiss ***. small gestures are worth a million words. talking is overrated, unless it's never happening. sex is always a good thing after the first few dates, build up a litttle tension, ya know. good luck.
2006-08-14 01:34:52 · answer #4 · answered by groverlovers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure it's difficult, but nothing is ever impossible. If you are sure enough of what you want and this is your goal then you will achieve it.
We girls really don't need to be impressed with something that isn't you. Looks aren't as important as your heart. If you like yourself, we see that and that is impressive. Your fear is keeping you from meeting the women you want. Overcoming your fear will endear you to the women you are attracted to. Just do things of value that you enjoy and with mixed company, you'll connect with the right person soon enough.
2006-08-14 01:36:13 · answer #5 · answered by Joanie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Your personality will attract more than looks.
2. Be yourself; trying to force being interesting or charming will drive women away.
3. Don't always "be looking"; see #2
4. Relax and go out and enjoy life; active, happy guys who enjoy life (even alone) will be attractive to women.
5. Put the video game away, get off the PC and get out more; that's where women are - outside.
2006-08-14 01:38:37 · answer #6 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually I meet someone when I least expect it. Go places where you might meet someone with similar interests. Go there often. Try coffee shops, bookstores, record stores, etc. You never know who you might bump into while checking out your favorite artist's new release, and maybe she'll love that album too! Stranger things have happened.
Good luck with your search. She may be right around the corner!
2006-08-14 01:32:22 · answer #7 · answered by kwikane7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a class or extra-curricular activity that you enjoy. Then start talking and getting to know the girls there. Before you know it you will have a girlfriend.
2006-08-14 01:30:44 · answer #8 · answered by Ms understood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man dont be so afraid cuz im 19 an dall the people say that i so handsome and i dont take care a lot to them and till now i dont have a gf i dont know why but im sure she will come alone so dont be busy cuz she will came?
take care?/?/// xx
2006-08-14 01:32:02 · answer #9 · answered by someone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls who appreciate you not only on the outside but also in the inside can be ur gf. Nowadays ppl only look on the outer part of u and wat u can do but those who look deep inside you will make u feel happy throughout ur whole life
2006-08-14 01:33:07 · answer #10 · answered by Alyssa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋