we were going out foir a few months but then i gotta really freaked cos commitment scares the hell otta me and im not very good,i suggested and he agreed that we'd go back to jst kissing and so cld kiss other people but now its like he's acting so distant to me and feels like i'm doing all the running we used to have a laugh but now whenever were together its awkward.will this change and go back to how it was or is it doomed?
2006-08-14 01:09:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Relationships are a continual evolution. It will never go back to the way it was. Start communicating and maybe you can get your needs met. If not, move on.
2006-08-14 01:13:19 · answer #1 · answered by Ms understood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you tell him how you feel you cannot tell someone that you want ot go back to just kissing & you can also kiss other people. It is you that has the problem you have hurt him & shown him that you are a bit of a tart. so let him go & find someone elses life you can destroy
2006-08-14 08:13:36 · answer #2 · answered by scarlet pimpernell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it will ever go back to the way it was, they say you can never go back---but you can still go forward just change the direction at which you choose to go forward, you two are in controll so get together and set down some agreeable rules, and directions
Good luck!
2006-08-14 08:18:28 · answer #3 · answered by Sonia S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not to be negitive but its already doomed, both of you obviously have nothing in common but kissing. even as you get older with him and all you do is kiss, event that will get old. MOVE ON.
2006-08-14 08:13:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you are that afraid of commitment, then why even bother with a relationship? I would sugest you break it off, not date anymore and just be a commited single person and never bother with risks any more.
2006-08-14 08:25:23 · answer #5 · answered by dread pirate lavenderbeard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe he`s acting like this because he wants more from u and knows that u are not sure, that may be the reason for his behaviour, or maybe he found someone else, just ask him what he wants
2006-08-14 08:15:39 · answer #6 · answered by vedz666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesnt look forward to a petting partner. Either it is full or it is nil. You decide, otherwise find someone else who will not ask for comittment!!!
2006-08-14 08:14:11 · answer #7 · answered by THE WORRIER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks as if he doesn't want to place all his eggs in one basket? Can you blame him?
2006-08-14 08:14:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋