I am a 16 year old guy who likes a 13 year old girl in my school. I got introduced to her by my friend in the pretext of making friends with her. She was nice and always smiling. But she also added that she did not wanted to get into anything(affair). But right after that she was hanging around my class or in the corrtidoor. She also told a friend of hers that she likes me(maybe as a friend). Once she just tapped me on my shoulders and said hi and walked away smiling. God I am really confused. All this happened in one day and i am all so messed up. So wt do u think is there any future with her.....and do u have any advice for me about wat i should do in the future??!!
2006-08-14 00:29:54 · 15 answers · asked by AriS 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey jus relax buddy.. take it easy n slow things down... just b good friends with her n try to know her better.. no need to rush things now bcoz both of u r quite young n u've jus met... u also dont need to b confused.. jus b friendly with her ( not over friendly i mean, jus b normal ) n see where things go... she might b shy but u need to give both of u some time... n rite now instead of thinking bout her, concentrate on ur studies... things would sort out itself....
2006-08-14 00:49:02 · answer #1 · answered by kanu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should play it really cool one day and hardly pay her any attention, and then suddenly change and shower her with attention and praise only to switch again and talk to some other girl in front of her. Girls love the thrill of the chase, trust me I am one! It sounds like she's playing a little hard to get, so by doing this you will have the ball in your court and instead of you being confused and chasing after her she'll be chasing after you..but don't abuse the power! Once its all sorted out you can ask her out and I guarantee she won't hesitate. My little brother always asks me for girl advice and it works for him so hopefully it will work for you too....good luck!
2006-08-14 00:41:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she may be confused as well. Otherwise she is playing games with you. Try approaching her and ask her if she wants to go out sometime. If she says no, then you know she is playing games with you and you need to drop her. If she says yes, then you know she likes you too and just set up a day and time. If you are shy about asking a girl out, write her a note asking her or have your friend ask her. Good luck.
2006-08-14 00:47:05 · answer #3 · answered by ?Shannan? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
believe me !! she likes you as you like her but she is too young to get into an affair or to make decisions. try and talk to her and make so many promises as long as she wants, if u really need her. If she agree to become your girl friend pls try and take things real slow by avioding too much privacy . cos she a young girl ,five years is not long . {she will be an adult in five years time} i guess u can wait if u want her so bad.
2006-08-14 00:45:14 · answer #4 · answered by reality 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take it slow. and i bet people are gunna say shes to young for you but dont listen cos its only a 3 year gap, just think that when ur 23 she'll be 20 and no one will have a problem with it then.
but dont rush anything cos u are both very young, just have fun with it.
2006-08-14 00:40:20 · answer #5 · answered by its all about me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow the advice of Rock Angel.
2006-08-14 00:38:36 · answer #6 · answered by saumitra s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, take it one day at a time. Everything will work out in the end. Just remain friends with her, she will be the first one to let you know that she wants you to be her bf. So, take a breather and let things handle itself.
2006-08-14 00:34:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's confused herself. It soundsl ike she like you, but isn't ready for a physical relationship. After all she's only 13. She's probably a little scared too, since you're seemingly so much older than her.
2006-08-14 00:38:35 · answer #8 · answered by bassbonebaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 01:35:23 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is either a kid or is just playing around with so unless she stars stalking you enjoy life
2006-08-14 00:40:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋