There is a nice girl at work who i wanted to ask out for a while, i get a few signs i think ?we have a lot of things in common but i don't want the whole rejection rumor around the work place if you know what i mean what should i do ?
2006-08-14 00:14:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on how you ask her.....A good way is like an Indirect ask out...like for example instead of asking "Hey do you wanna go see a movie or go get something to eat sometime" you could say.."a few of my friends and I are going out or doing something this coming Friday,sat,sund,whatever and I wanted to know if you felt like hanging out." that way it doesnt seem to personal and after you hang out outside of work once you can build from there. Also it doesn't make it too personal like a date, Sometimes the girl isnt rejecting you, she is rejecting the idea, cuz dates make things akward. If you are hanging out in a group of people you can talk on a personal level but give it a more comfortable feel. Hope it helps
2006-08-14 00:21:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Take the plunge dude and ask her. The only way you going to find out really. And if there should be a rumor started that you got rejected, stand tall. At least you can say that you tried and did not go about saying what if and if only. Best of luck amigo
2006-08-14 00:18:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a good question, is you ask her out then she rejects you . You could be subject to being the jike of the company everyone whispering wherever you go, but then again if you don't take that chance you will never forgive yourself because it will always be what if? In life you need to take chances otherwise you'll never know . My advice is get to know her on a fiendly basis, dont rush, If you see that shes interested you'll notice the signs, and when you feel comfortable then ask her out don't make a big deal out of it just make it casual and take it from there.
2006-08-14 00:26:08 · answer #3 · answered by Emiliana 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, let's ignore all the sexist people out there! It's the twenty-first freaking century. If you like someone, tell them. Girls shouldn't have to ride backseat to guys all of our lives just because it's considered "tradition". Screw that, lol! I have asked out guys before, and usually it goes pretty well. Guys like girls that take charge. If you I like someone then I tell them. I think that's how all girls should think. Yeah it feels good to get asked out, but let's face it, half the population doesn't have the balls for that. Sometimes the girl just has to get the relationship started, then the guy can take over from there.
2016-03-27 01:07:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
since shes a co-worker i would see if u could get a few from work to all go out including her . this way u get to see how she reacts around u and if she declines u wont be the laughing stock at work. if things go good that night then ask her if maybe sometime she would like to go out with u for dinner or a movie and take it from there
good luck
2006-08-14 00:22:06 · answer #5 · answered by kikiaboo29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it out of the work place. Trust me. If anything happens after you go out like a big breakup then you will still have to work with her and be professional. It never works out.
2006-08-14 00:19:08 · answer #6 · answered by bildymooner 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think yes. Ask her out, but at the very beginning make a "friendly' invitation to see how she reacts on that. then when you go out (just as friends), begin talking about...what you think about her and how much you like her, etc.
But always act according to the situation.
Good luck
2006-08-14 00:28:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her some gift and if she likes then you can talk about that you love her she is nice girl if she will like you she will make some sense other she will also feel like you not to mess on the workplace.
2006-08-14 00:22:17 · answer #8 · answered by creed 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her and a couple of people from work out for a drink, then ask her there. if she says no then you could blame it on the drink.
2006-08-14 00:26:45 · answer #9 · answered by its all about me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask if she wants to meet you for a drink after work and go from there
2006-08-14 00:18:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋