My boyfriend ALWAYS uses condoms when we have sex. I hate them. I just feel uncomfortable when we have sex using a condom.
He says that this is to protect us...pregnancies etc.
I just can't stand this anymore, and I sometimes think that condoms if used so often, may harm me.
Do you think that condoms are not good for girls' sexual health? Can they do any harm to me?
I just don't like sex anymore.
Please can you just give me some advice, what can I do to feel better?
Thank you.
2006-08-14 00:02:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Condoms can't harm you. They protect you against pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases. Some condoms are pretty nasty - especially the lubricated ones. Try some different types and brands. You and your boyfriend can make a game out of it. I'm sure you find something you both like.
I recommend Kimono. Non-lubricated and you hardly notice they're there.
2006-08-14 00:05:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So long as you're both tested and in a monogamous relationship, you don't need to worry about STD's. Second, if you're on birth control, it's highly unlikely that you'll get pregnant (like 1 in 700). Even if you do get pregnant, it's not the end of the world, you have several options.
1. adoption
2. abortion
3. raise the baby.
You should have a discussion with your BF about what you would do if you did get pregnant (because condoms are not 100% effective anyway). Then tell him you're on birth control and if you miss a pill (if you choose the pill) you'll go back to condoms until next month. Express to him that you would very much like to have sex without a condom because you're not enjoying it with one. He will want to make you happy, and you can take the conversation from there.
2006-08-14 07:10:54 · answer #2 · answered by 006 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are one of the most successiuve preventive measures. They don't harm you. Yes, the pleasure may go down at some cases. Prevention is better than cure. The other contraceptives will affect the cycle of the female at one time or the other. But this won't. Bear with it till you decide to have a child. After that, go for tubectomy or ask him to go for vasectomy.
2006-08-14 07:09:26 · answer #3 · answered by chappani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Condoms do not harm you. I think it's more than that. I think you believe his continued use of a condom is somehow questioning his commitment to you or love for you. But hey, better safe than sorry.
2006-08-14 07:16:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They make birth control pills, have depo shots to prevent pregnancy if that is all you are worried about. As for as STD's and things he will need to use a condom then.
2006-08-14 07:11:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The condoms protect you from babies and they don’t do any harm to you.If you do sex and your partner doesn't wear condoms you will risk to have a Babbie.
2006-08-14 07:10:45 · answer #6 · answered by Alex S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should always use a condom, they dont harm you but thay do protect you from std's and sti's. and the female is more likly to catch them so u should be glad ur bf uses condoms.
2006-08-14 07:13:27 · answer #7 · answered by its all about me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can a condom harm you? you should be grateful you have a guy who cares enough about his sexual health, and yours, to use protection
2006-08-14 07:07:19 · answer #8 · answered by dragonfly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Use a sandwhich bag...if that doesn't work, risk aids and a unwanted pregnancy. YOu can either wine about it or get on with some sexual creativity!
2006-08-14 07:08:03 · answer #9 · answered by passionfruit2571 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you think its safe to have sex with your bf w/o condom, then go for contraceptive pills...
2006-08-14 09:02:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋