I talk to a few different guys that I have been talking to for a while...atleast a year for one of them. I have slept in the same bed atleast 10 times with one of them but never any sexual advances til the past week. We almost had sex but he didnt have n e condoms. Which was weird for me...really weird for me! Then I have been seeing this other guy since January and we have had sex atleast once a week since about 1 month after we started talking and he seems like he wants to be with me but he hasnt made the commitment. I'm confused about the whole situation.
2006-08-13 15:10:37 · 10 answers · asked by MzNikkiLC 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not being promiscuos. The only guy that I have sex with is the one that I said I have sex with. The other guy that I have known since the beginning of september, I have never had sex with. We almost had sex but no condoms as i have said before. Those are the only two guys that I have ever even slept in the same bed.
2006-08-14 13:11:51 · update #1
i know exactly how you feel...im in the same boat right now..
what i would do is sit down and ask them exactly what they think should happen in your relationship..just come right out and ask them if they want to be with you or not...if they say no then you know what they were after...and if they say yes then you could have somethin there...just give it your all ....good things come to those who wait...
redneck1768
since i answered your question...could you answer mine?
2006-08-13 15:27:19 · answer #1 · answered by redneck1768 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would he make a commitment to you when you are sleeping in the same bed with another man? If you want to get serious with some one be serious and stop having casual sex. Think about what it is you want out of a relationship and then work on it and you will find some who will commit to you.Hes not going to commit to you when you give it up so freely to him ..he can have you and who ever El's if he's not made you any promises and he can sleep at night with a clear conscience too.
2006-08-13 15:20:52 · answer #2 · answered by vtlovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is just nasty. Where is your self -respect. You don't take a relationship to the next step unless it's special between the two of you and from what you're saying it's not special with anyone. I think you need to keep your panties on for a while and stop seeing all of these people. Give yourself sometime to think about what you're doing and why. When you have some answers try again but this time how about one at a time?
2006-08-13 15:16:08 · answer #3 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like all your trying to do is to have sex. Being in a relationship is about caring for the person that you love, not selling your body to as many people as you can. Try finding a guy you like, and instead of having sex, have a good conversation.
2006-08-13 15:20:57 · answer #4 · answered by Tucker C 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How can you take it 2 the next level when you have multiple partners. You have 2 stop the promiscuity if you want more than just sex.
2006-08-13 15:28:16 · answer #5 · answered by Reighn J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you are too loose for them. Most guys don't end up in a relationship with easy girls.
2006-08-13 15:20:02 · answer #6 · answered by mary c 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why buy the cow if you are getting the milk for free? Just as true now as it has always been
2006-08-13 15:15:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dating alot of guys is not always bad b/c it can help u decide whos for you but sometimes only one guy is wat you need so u can spend more time gettin to know wat they really want....if sex is all it is then its probably nothin special and it would help to know before u have sex with that person and know ur committed before u go farther....cuz if your with multiple ppl possibly havin sex with them chances are hes doin the same...seein how he already did with you
2006-08-13 15:17:22 · answer #8 · answered by kym b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u should just push the envolpe if u know what i mean....just sit down and tell one of them that u want to be with one of them
2006-08-13 15:16:22 · answer #9 · answered by April 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
join the club no woman wants me
2006-08-13 15:15:04 · answer #10 · answered by dannym7500 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋