you see she kept flirting with me but she only wanted to be friends. And I don't know if she is telling the truth.Please helpme with my girl trouble!!!
2006-08-13 11:19:59 · 64 answers · asked by Mitchy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm crazy about her and I can't stop thinking about her, and I don't want to be hurt again I fell in love way too many times to not know what love is.
2006-08-14 03:31:59 · update #1
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-08-18 16:42:25 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, I can only tell you a few things, darling. Either this girl is seriously toying with her new boy toy (you in other words) and cruelly enjoying it, deciding she doesn't want it to end... or she's just too shy and can't tell you her feelings. Perhaps she doesn't feel anything for you at all and thinks you're the one flirting with her while you think she's flirting with you!
It depends on her. Maybe she wants to be more than friends but leaves it at that because she's afraid of rejection! But either way, talk to her about it and let her know you'll understand if she doesn't feel the same way about you... it's always nice to know a guy won't go haywire on you because you don't like them back, you know?
2006-08-13 11:25:38 · answer #2 · answered by ♥TransylvanianVamp♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because she flirts with u doesn't mean she's in love with u. Play along and have fun. Being friends is the best way to be these days. Sooo.... don't go acting like she's yours and telling ppl ur in-love til u know it for sure. Flirting and being in love is two total different things. Good luck
2006-08-13 11:25:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make someone love you nor make her tell you what you want to hear. Lots of girls are flirtatious but just want to be friends. Nothing wrong with that. Just go with it, flirt back, don't take every flirtatious remark or action too seriously.
It's not about telling the truth, but whether you're mature and got sense enough to grow with flirting.
2006-08-13 11:30:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there and be her friend.Don't try to be anything more than her best friend.Eventually she'll decide whether she wants you as a friend and a companion or just a friend.All you can do is wait.Or you could make a big dramatic scene and plan some special occasion in front of lots of people and make her feel special and glamorous by asking her to be your girlfriend.Make sure aloty of people hear you.
2006-08-13 11:24:50 · answer #5 · answered by sunkissed299 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well some girls dont want to be in a "real" relationship so they avoid those words...I LOVE YOU! I think that they are just scared to get in to deep and then .. have trouble getting "out" or that you dump them .. whatever the matter it could also be that they have had bad expiriances with"love" before....
just keep on flirting until u feel that it is becoming something serious.
2006-08-13 11:24:30 · answer #6 · answered by gaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why push something that's not happening women love to make guys chase like puppy dogs, Be a man move on to someone that wants you, broads are a dime a dozen
2006-08-13 11:24:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she likes u, she'll tell u. Don't force it. She probably just having fun. Or maybe she doesn't want a relationship, but lilkes u. IF u force it, then whatever she's doing to get ur attention will cease as well, and so will any friendship u even had with her.
2006-08-13 11:24:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out and say if you like come out on a date with and stop filiting with me say you stop and donot go a date then we will be friends no matter what i feel. you see you gotto trick them it's the 7 girs i dated for the 3 years i like having gril every day of the week that way a don't get bord and then they out all i have to say hotest is i love please for give i will ever do it agin . what they don't know can't hurt them.and she still have you flirt with some eles so she gets mad and say's this is my man.
2006-08-13 11:34:19 · answer #9 · answered by Fireball 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you two date already? If so why did she say just friends? Was it to be temporary? Or how long ago did she say just friends? ( talk about answering a question with a question) Just trying to get a feel for what past you may have had with her if any. Perhaps you should get with her and ask, things may have changed.
2006-08-13 11:25:22 · answer #10 · answered by Littlefoot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋