can i get HIV? since i didnt give him oral but i just used my mouth and tongue to mess with his testicals? i dont do oral so i didnt do it, but now im like, feeling gross, because i really care for him but he just found out he has HIV , although he has it, i can still picture myself being with him because i dont look at him any different then who he is...but im more worried about if i can get it from licking/sucking on someone's testicals? i felt so gross, i threw up in the shower.....i dont have moneyto pay for a check up so what should i do? he said he will go with me
2006-08-09 19:39:37 · 26 answers · asked by brooke06 2 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
Go online to www.knowhivaids.org
You probably don't have it. But, its smart to get tested anyway. On that website they have info on where to get free HIV tests and counseling. Good luck... and I commend you for still sticking by his side. :o)
By the way... it takes about 6 months for it to show up in your system. So, still go get tested, but in 6 months you should go again.
2006-08-09 19:44:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
Go to a health clinic in your area that tests for AIDS ASAP...You will have to take 3 tests at 3 different times to see if you are HIV+.....These clinics know you as a number ( in fact ask the guy that you were in contact with, where he went to be tested( by law ,he has to LIST ALL the men/women he was in contact with......you may be recieving something in the mail soon.If...you live with your parents/parent go and get tested before something is maile dto your home....Take someone that you trust with you.The clinic will give you a piece of paper with your number onit and when to come back for the results.
Acertain amount of time will before your 2nd and 3rd test are scheduled,they will let you know when to report for test number 2 and 3.....I would be so...worried but I would stay busy,and get a journal to write in,it helps to write down what you are feeling and release allyour anger and you will feel
better.(or if you are afraid that someone will find your journal,type it on the
computer and immediately erase it or write on a piece of paper and burn it
or rip after its purpose has been served.
Did this guy tell you before you had sex and did other oral things?Obviously
not or you wouldn' have done anything with this man until he showed you the 3 rd test declaring him HIV-....You said you can still picture yourself being
with this man because you do not look at him any different. So...if you get
Aids from him, aren't you goin g to be angry with him for jeopardizing you?
He jepordized you by having intercourse (what if the condom broke and he
also got you pregnant.That could have been 2 more people he infected,not counting all the others that he may not be telling you about......
2006-08-09 20:20:13 · answer #2 · answered by FELINELOVER 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your very sweet and your comment has made me very proud to be a part of life itself. you are worried and that is normal. go see the doctor of a free clinic (planned parenthood?) and have them test you. you will have to repeat the test. there are also drugs I have heard, that you can take that may help keep the hiv from developement had you came in contact with his semen. so the sooner the better.
Your an awesome individual who is not discriminating against a disease that is now kept in pretty good check as long as a person take the correct meds. he will always be HIV infected, but chances are he will live a long life with these meds.
2006-08-12 16:11:26 · answer #3 · answered by giggling.willow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A agree with Veronica, Get tested. All body fluids including sweat and even tears can contain the HIV virus. That is a medical fact!
2006-08-17 19:14:26 · answer #4 · answered by danny m 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should be able to get a free check up if there is a free clinic in your area.
The both of you need to get educated about having sex with HIV before it spreads. The clinic should have given him some information so that he can protect his partner. Make sure he is telling you what you need to know.
HIV is transmitted through body fluids, ask yourself did you taste something salty? cause if you did then that could have been his sperm and yes you need to get checked out ASAP!!!!!!!!
Check out websites and go to you local library to find out what you need.
2006-08-16 05:18:51 · answer #5 · answered by redbone_lds 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 02:53:59 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having sexual contact with anyone with a sexual transmitted diease is always a risk undoubtly a risk that u didn't think thru, but if ur worried from getting it just from his NUTS then u haven't to worry as long as no semen was present. if i was u first off i would be careful and fully think things thru but i would also get chked out just to be safe, if u have a health dept near u they should chk u free of charge and can give u lots of info on having a partner with hiv and the risks involved
2006-08-17 14:55:57 · answer #7 · answered by dede 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well listen here honey you know that your mate has HIV, you better take care of yourself, at anytime you can get that virus might-est well put a gun to your head. Why do you want to mess with a time bomb. If I were you I would start thinking about your future. This is a very serious disease. BEWARE!
2006-08-17 14:52:59 · answer #8 · answered by Loveley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot get infected with HIV by sucking on someones nut sack. I would be freaking out though.
Close call my friend.
2006-08-09 19:45:00 · answer #9 · answered by Imightbewrong 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are usually free clinics to check yourself. Planned parenthood wont charge you if your income is too low. Find a way to get tested instead of Yahooing about Testes.
2006-08-09 19:47:37 · answer #10 · answered by RiddleMeThis 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋