I am a teenager and i have been invited to this really popular girls sleep over party, i want to act cool and try to impress my freinds at the sleep over party. I admit that i am a "little" chubby put not like FAT FAT chubby. What should i wear that is the latest fashion and that will suit my figure??? and how should i act in front of all the party guests.
please help i am REALLY nervous.
2006-08-06 23:50:01 · 27 answers · asked by Maddie A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Be yourself. Don't try to be someone you are not. If these girls are "cool", they will accept you for who you are. If not, then you really shouldn't care to be friends with them.
Too much time is wasted in our youth trying to impress others. You will be much happier in life if the only person you try to please is yourself.
2006-08-06 23:53:24 · answer #1 · answered by Physh 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should wear some clothes which suit you best and in which you feel comfortable. Just be yourself, because trying to be something you're not won't do anything good for you, it will only bring bad comments behind your back. Be confident and natural. I think that you shouldn't be so worried. Whoever likes you, likes you for who you are, not how you look like and so on, but I have to tell you: girls will be girls! You might see heads turning after you and observing you in detail with looks that may make you feel unwanted there, but you shouldn't care about that. Just have fun and be happy...You're at a party for God's sake...Not a press conference!!! :)
2006-08-06 23:56:45 · answer #2 · answered by mickurahul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what the fashion is but for someone who is on the heavy side, a top that is tunic length (comes down to mid-hip) and something not too short for the bottom is the best way to go.
As for how to act, don't. You are not going to "act in front of all the party guests", you are going to be with the party guests. So just be. Be your self.
Trying to be cool does not result in being cool. Be nice. Have fun. Relax.
2006-08-06 23:58:05 · answer #3 · answered by R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel alittle chubby you can get some nice clothes than can hide that, dont wear something tight. Be your self you wouldnt of been invited if they didnt like you, act polite be pleasant dont think you have to do things to please others you are the important one. Peer pressure puts stress on you, but you will find if you change to impress people it may back fire, your friends like you for what you are now. Enjoy the party.
2006-08-07 00:31:10 · answer #4 · answered by a mother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, listen very carefully to this. The worst thig you can do is 'put on an act', you absolutely have to be yourself and be proud of it. Its hard to see in your teens, but trying to be one of the in crowd never works, sometimes you will be, sometimes you won't, but the fact you have been invited means you are ok in this group. Just be you, wear what makes you feel good and what flatters your figure, listen more than you talk (stops you putting your foot in it!) and enjoy the party.
2006-08-06 23:54:07 · answer #5 · answered by welsh_witch_sally 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be urself don't put on an act for them,if they dont like u for being sincere then they have a problem,wear whatever u feel comfortable in,and don't believe that you have to wear large clothes that's not true
that will only make u look bigger
2006-08-06 23:55:25 · answer #6 · answered by Sherry Baby ( Ethan's Mama ) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really have to (impress) your "friends" and worry about what type of clothes to wear then you have no real friends. A real friend doesn't care what your clothing choice is or your body shape. They like you for your personality nothing material.
If you pray and ask god in your heart and admit you're a sinner then change your life for his good, read the bible daily and go to church then that's when god listens and answers your prayers, and forgives us when we pray that we've sinned. He just doesn't forgive everybody, you have to be spiritually saved first.
2006-08-07 22:56:15 · answer #7 · answered by J P 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
take a deep breathe and you will be fine,I suggest wearing black,this color is definetly a slimming factor and believe me I am one that knows,dont try to be anyone or anything but yourself,if people cant love you for who you are then they are not worth it,you have your own special qualities,this is what makes you-you.dont give them up for anyone,especially popular girls,most of them end up with a way worse life then us that are not so popular-hope this helps
2006-08-06 23:57:42 · answer #8 · answered by TAMMY M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off STOP BEING NERVOUS!!!!.being nervous and thinking to much will only make you do and say all the wrong things.go shopping,find something that YOU like and that flatters your body type.if its a sleep over get some new pajama's.BE YOURSELF,dont spend the night trying to be what they want you to be.if they dont like you for who you are ,you dont need them.obviously they like you enough already or they wouldnt of invited you.just have fun.good luck adn RELAX!!!!!
2006-08-06 23:56:56 · answer #9 · answered by mrs.dynomite 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best way to be cool is to NOT CARE what anyone thinks about you. I know that's hard at your age to understand. Don't be a people pleaser and you'll be the coolest person in the world. Trust me.
2006-08-06 23:54:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋