met a man online& we email, call,chat 10 times eachday.we've the same nationality but he lives in another country.for months we never met but will meet soon.we say we r so in love.might sound silly as we havent met but he depends on me so much.do i love him?sometimes i feel i do, espcially when we quarrel and i think i may lose him.and i know my heart is tender to him.but he's very hot tempered and so passionate which i like but it also makes me feel insecure or obliged. then at work, i met a man of different nationality.he's 30 years older than me, but am attracted to him& he to me.I feel so safe with him&unlike with the first,i feel he's mentaly mature.i never thought i'd have feelings for older man.now the first guy doesnt know about this and i feel so guilty, yet cant tell him cos it'll kill him.but i dont want 2 betray anyone and do not want to hurt the first guy cause he has been doing nothing but treating me well though he is controlling.sometimes i think i should let go of both
2006-08-06 23:17:51 · 3 answers · asked by mango m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you have to get real..what you have with previous guy isn't even a real relationship...wake up and don't feel guilty about it...if the mature guy is into you and you feel the same way, then be with him...at least he is physically there with you...
2006-08-06 23:24:22 · answer #1 · answered by Mystery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know how to keep your mouth shut at the different situations , you will be happy with the both if not making your mind or plan to settle down with one of them , its OK for now , let nature play its part also .
2006-08-07 06:24:50 · answer #2 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have some issues to work on. Let these men go and seek some counseling. Might be the best thing that you ever did for yourself
2006-08-07 06:27:10 · answer #3 · answered by kimberly b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋