I don't know when is my parents' birthday,If they talk to me, I will leave. Because they take over 1 hour for talk. I don't like talk to them. And I don't want live together with them..
Am I not good son????/
2006-08-06 22:53:27 · 28 answers · asked by Jim 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you are a good son!! but im just curious why you dont want to live with them. sounds that you dont care with them but " they care for you and im sure they " love you"!!
2006-08-06 23:03:29 · answer #1 · answered by poshdals 1 · 5⤊ 3⤋
yes
ur parents raised u up
u should help them whenever they r in trouble
u can't walk away like that from ur parents, it's bad
without ur parents, u wouldn't be like what u r right now
u r very grateful for having parents
ask the children who r orphans
and other thing, if u see the world from ur parents' point of view, u will know how hard it is to be a parent
they did everything for u, now it's ur turn to do something for ur parents
they expect great things from u and u should give them
even though i am not a parent, i understand what is it like to be one
when u become a parent too, do u expect the things from ur children that u r doing to ur parents right now??????
think about it
i hope u understand this
and make a right decision
2006-08-07 00:19:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in the process of becoming an adult.
Stick it out at home. What is the alternative? Street life?
Drug overdoes?
Your job right now is to become an adult and have a way to support yourself so that you live your oen life.
Maybe if you talked to your parents as if they were human you wouldn't have to feel like you do.
Take a deep breath and plug in to the family life.
2006-08-06 23:02:57 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel this way towards the people that brought you into this world? Did they do something to you? I would say you are doing something you don't want your parents to know about and this is why you are being so private. You know it's wrong and you don't want to be lectured. Just try to remember that they won't be here forever and they are the two people in the world that love you no matter what you do.
2006-08-06 23:01:06 · answer #4 · answered by jennifer c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say you don't like talking to them and you leave when they try to talk to you. it seems to me that your parents are trying to get close to you but you don't give them a chance. however, that does not make you a bad son. it makes you a normal son. so don't feel that bad. all of us gone through a phase like this.
2006-08-06 23:09:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was thinking that perhaps you were of Indian descent because of the writing (but that's easily faked!). But no, I don't think you are. Because people in that culture have respect for their parents! This is total disrespect, something that American teens (children, whatever) do to their parents.
So, whatever you are... whoever you are.... where ever you are.... you ARE a bad son.
You're Chinese??? Okay...... still a bad son.
2006-08-06 22:59:00 · answer #6 · answered by grahamma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending on your age, if you are 30 and acting like that then yes you are a BAD son, if you are 15 and acting like that, then you are very very normal
not liking your parents is normal, i hated my mom till i was about 22 and now i am 30 and i am very addicted to her, it takes time and some understanding of their motives for your future, it will be fine, but be nice, lol
2006-08-06 23:00:01 · answer #7 · answered by Dawn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u r not a good son........they r ur parents.......who took care of u from the day u were born.........they r the only ones who have the power on you n u need to treat them very well.......remember what is said fourth in the ten commandments
2006-08-06 22:58:55 · answer #8 · answered by friend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should know by now. As a Chinese, you were taught to be obedient to your parents and elders since you were young. Have you forgotten ??? You are just a little bit of rebelleous.
2006-08-07 00:14:23 · answer #9 · answered by Vince 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think when you were born if they didn't want to talk to you, you better think it over and you need to respect them.
2006-08-06 22:59:57 · answer #10 · answered by Granny 1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They sound like they are concerned for you...I wonder why this is? You are probably not where they want you to be...most likely they want the best for you and you are perhaps too young to see that...so you're not bad...just immature.
2006-08-06 22:58:41 · answer #11 · answered by Mac 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋