2006-08-06 22:38:29 · 10 answers · asked by tolland w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wish I knew myself! Ive had a couple good guys come into my life and I let them go... I guess sometimes the right guys are a little too much for us sometimes and we need space.. at least thats my experience on the matter
2006-08-06 22:44:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking as a guy, and from years of observation:
(a) Women tend to be more emotionally honest than guys, and less driven by sex.
(Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying women don't like sex; of course they do, and they should. Indeed, their sex drives are often more intense than men's. 'Driven by sex' here means: 'likely to get into a relationship with sex as the prime or only motivation').
It's easier for men to lie to you about their feelings, because they have a definite, defined GOAL from the relationship. They can work towards getting, and keeping, that - whatever it takes.
Women sometimes DON'T have such a clear, focused aim. They want emotional fulfilment, companionship, spiritual / intellectual connection. These are all far more complex as goals, so you don't 'work' your partner for them.
Guys can often sense, deep inside and pretty early on in a relationship, that you're not going to last as a couple. But they'll persist with you as long as they can get into your pants regularly - and until someone better comes along.
Our lack of emotional honesty makes it easy for us to conceal this from you, and keep going after our one, clear goal.
And you can't spot this, because it's much harder for you to lie about feelings.
EXAMPLE: A used car salesman can't rip off another used car salesman....but he can rip off someone who hasn't done enough lying to be able to spot a liar.
(b) Some women cling too tightly to the belief that they 'need a man' to be complete, and this sometimes leads to a lack of caution in forming relationships.
Before you flame me and deny that, I'll just say that I've seen it happen too many times. Peer pressure from other women is heavily to blame here.
So is there any hope?
Yep.
It comes with experience.
The ladies who've met the used car salesmen at least once tend to be better at spotting and avoiding them next time.
Eventually, they find someone honest.
Good luck to you.
2006-08-07 06:09:52 · answer #2 · answered by Bowzer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are so many pretenders everywhere so how can a girl know which guy is right & which one is wrong for her. so its just the guys out there responsible & not a mistake of girls, i agree not alwys but yes most of the times.
the continuance of a relationship is not bcoz a guy(also a girl) is right or not. it depends on their understanding, adjustabbility , their likes , dislikes & many other things
2006-08-07 05:48:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
experience teaches...we cant judge anyone completely at first sight. it takes time.i believe better late than never.men can never live up in any relation so these baffoons blame women n escape
2006-08-07 05:51:30 · answer #4 · answered by tannu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not always the case.
but if you have been through some rough boys, try not to be decieved by personality - check the character also before falling for a guy.
2006-08-07 05:43:30 · answer #5 · answered by vinod s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wish men came with right and wrong on thier forhead i'd have me a good guy then
2006-08-07 05:42:35 · answer #6 · answered by Deshawn & Keshawn's mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coz there's no such thing as Mr. Right, dat's y we always end up w/Mr. Wrong
2006-08-07 05:45:18 · answer #7 · answered by 2D1iLuV 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unwise choice
2006-08-07 05:42:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because their brains are flawed
2006-08-07 05:45:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they don't wanna see
2006-08-07 05:46:21 · answer #10 · answered by hellosexymoto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋