should i get my 19 year old daughter married as she wants to marry as early as possible?

Question

she is scared of darkness and gets nervous during nights.

Answer 1

Seems like u r an indian... u r quoting the problems faced by her.. i guess she should be cured of these and then may be go in for a marriage.. wat if the guy divorce's her later dues to these problems.. don't take a haste step!!! take her for counselling!!

Answer 2

What in the world do the two have to do with each other? Just cuz she is afraid of the dark buy her a night light and nervous at night get her a teddy bear. Don't get her a husband. My goodness she is way too young for that. Let her live her life the correct way not by getting the nearest guy out there to run and save the day.

Answer 3

Well, actually i am rather confused here. You are getting your daughter of 19 year old to get married because she is scared of darkness and gets nervous at night.
As a start, getting her married will not solve her problem. Why don't you take her to see a doctor or psychiatrist so that they can help her to cure her problems. I think this is a better solution than getting her married at such a young age.
A person should not be getting married to solve inherent problems. As you are aware, marriage comes with its own problems, ups and downs. I really don't think that your young daughter is ready for that. At least not until she has her own problem sorted out first.

Answer 4

No. Give her a nightlight and a doorknob she can lock from inside. Maybe her dad or someone else did bad things to her in the dark at night....... worth checking in to, but DON'T get her married. It'll only make it worse.
And guess what, I'm grown and am still afraid of the dark. It's not a big deal. That's another reason why I'm up in the middle of the night, too, is cuz I hate sleeping at nighttime. It's no biggie. Just deal with it and love her anyway, don't get rid of her.

Answer 5

nooooooooo!
please dont let her get married oh my god she s so so young,but in any case u should let a phycayatriest check her out.
i mean if she's afraid of darkness she's surely not mature enough u should know that of all ppl cuz ur her mom.
u should talk 2 her,not 2 marry so soon,tell her she's still so young and the possibilities she could in life,that some1 is out there,that will love her enough 2 know wen she's ready to get married nd treasure her 4 the rest of her life.
tell her all the wonderful chances she can get if she'll let herself grow a older till she's at least above 21 nd 22.
hope i helped
GOOD LUCK*

Answer 6

Being scared of the dark is not a reason to get married. She should get married when and IF she feels that she is ready to get married. You should not make that decion for her

Answer 7

huh?
what does being scared have to do with her getting married?

Also NO ONE gets their daughter married. She finds a guy and gets engaged and then gets married. Early as possible?

Let life unfold as it will.

Answer 8

You should get her to a Psychiatrist if she is still afraid of the dark. She is clearly not mature enough to marry.

Answer 9

I dont see the link of your two questions?If she wants to get married, why not leave her do wat she wants most, you are like referee in her , just controlling where she goes wrong and cheering through out, so support her , if thats wat she wants.You do not marry her, but she gets married when she feels like.
Then on that phobia , you have just talked about, its nature, she just has to go see a person who can help her on that, probably a specialist in phobias, thats how she can get over it

Answer 10

I do not see any harm in doing this. Also, it will be good for her as it will help her to understand and be responsible for many things. Probably good marriage will also help her to get rid of these fears as well.