they hurt you with everything they do..you feel like you're nothing, if you want to give comment about them, everyone say sssssttt...
2006-08-06 21:54:32 · 7 answers · asked by ies k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Its a hard pill...you just have to take it one day at a time. Start by trusting yourself and knowing that you have value and love yourself first. In spite of the hurt don't allow yourself to go around moping and feeling sorry for yourself. Walk tall and be proud. In the end this situation will make you stronger and give you more character. This way you turn this negative into a positive. You will not have been defeated by it.
Find a new hobby or some novels to read. Find something constructive to do at least once every day and force yourself not to dwell on those negative thoughts. If you practice this, before you know it you will find yourself taking more control of the situation.
It will take some time for the hurt to go away, but you will be in a different frame of mind and will not wallow in it.
Good luck!
2006-08-06 22:10:32 · answer #1 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
self esteem is low in your case. Why care a damn about what they say or do? Show disinterest and ignore as if it means nothing to you. People like to continue harrasing someone only when there is a reaction. They are sadists and the best way to deal is laugh on their faces.
2006-08-07 05:04:31 · answer #2 · answered by cvasan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ever forget them, if you do your bound to forget how much power that idiot had over your feelings, just keep this fact in mind anyone who hurts you that badly is not a person you should listen to!!!!!
2006-08-07 04:59:14 · answer #3 · answered by Jen B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to forget really is a hard thing to do especially if they did a big part in your life, whether good nor bad.. why cant you just try to busy yourself instead of having more free time to think coz eventually you'll think of them..
2006-08-07 05:02:40 · answer #4 · answered by zimran!!.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't forget them, accept the fact that they've hurt you, then it's easier to take it. once you did this, you come to selection point, either forgive them or .....
2006-08-07 05:04:40 · answer #5 · answered by hector 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
more like just forget about them, i mean if they do everything to hurt and they mean it then dont wast time about forgiving them.
2006-08-07 05:00:25 · answer #6 · answered by dragonrider 77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't. you just be the stronger person and pray for him/her to be a better person.
2006-08-07 05:13:52 · answer #7 · answered by DaNewGuy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋