I ran back into a girl who is a family/childhood friend back in june at a couple parties and all. It was nice we talked etc, but I never managed to get her number. It's funny because I remember when she was around 4 and I was like 6 and she would always wanted to play and was always hugging me and all. Needless to say we aren't kids anymore (I'm 20 and she's 18) but she is really gorgeous and just stole my heart. Something happened this week where it just sort of hit me, and I realized how much I like this girl and all. It's not like I know her all that well, but she seems sweet and to me she just represents a time in my life when I was younger, the world was in front of me, and things were easier. I didn't have her number or know anyone who does so the only way to contact her that I have is through myspace, and I already emailed her once just sort of sparking convo, telling her that I thought she was an interesting girl etc etc and i want to talk to her when I go back to school...
2006-08-06 21:35:22 · 6 answers · asked by ev 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when I go back to school in the upcoming week and I asked for her number. She wrote a long letter back that was really nice and friendly etc, but instead of her number she gave me her screen name so I don't really know what to make of it especially since I have yet to her online. The big thing is that I go back to school tomorrow on Tuesday and I recently learned that she is going to be doing a guitar open mic sort of thing at starbucks on monday (today) and I'm having thoughts about just going and trying to talk to her or I dunno something. I know that it could be considered stalking and that my life isn't some sort of movie, but since there's a good chance i may not see her for like 6 months i dont know what to do. sometimes i just think with my heart and not my head and i think it gets me into trouble. i dunno
2006-08-06 21:35:51 · update #1
just go for it, u got nothing to lose. at the max, she'll say no... you'll just be where you started... at the least, she may say yes and the world's urs to achieve
2006-08-06 21:40:05 · answer #1 · answered by conspicuous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to her open mic thingo. Maybe you could go there with a friend so it looks like you're not stalking her? And when you run into her there you can have a proper conversation not through the computer. :o)
Just be careful of idealising her -- she's probably not the same person she was when she was 4, just like you're not the same boy you were at 6! I do know how tempting it is though, and how comfortable as well. I remember I had a similar thing with the 'boy next door' when I was 5 and he was 8. It would be great to see him again, so I don't think you're weird or a stalker.
Just go along and have a chat. It'll be great. :o)
2006-08-06 21:45:01 · answer #2 · answered by epiCure 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. i think she is really interested in you otherwise she would not have written you a nice long letter.
2. By giving you her screen name, she wanted to chat with you! Maybe she finds it easier to express her feelings online than on the phone (like me - been together with my bf for more than 4 yrs. I only called him on his mobile twice).
3. If you don't speak to her today, it will take about 6 months to see her again? What are you waiting for??? Tell her how you feel! tHIS could be an opportunity to both of you.
4. Good Luck and keep us posted on how it goes!!
2006-08-06 21:43:33 · answer #3 · answered by trushka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't try to rationalize the irrational. matters of the heart are always tricky.
The others had good advice. Go to her starbucks thing with a friend and just hang out. Get a chance to talk with her a bit and then go home. go to school. chat with her online. You might find out that she's amazing and can't wait to see her again, or you might think that she's immature and too young for you. be patient. A little patience can go a long way.
2006-08-06 21:50:58 · answer #4 · answered by Parkster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, long tale..........in case you fairly like this woman and picture that the two considered one of you have some form of relationship, I say in simple terms be easy, although i does not circulate to her open mic night (this night), they could be somewhat too weird and wonderful, in view which you already had some form of touch along with her. probability is she isn't involved nevertheless, you assert you went to her and asked for her quantity, rather you acquire a letter and a computer screen call to talk, my wager is she desires to be buddies. i does not project approximately it nevertheless, you sound like an exceedingly effective guy and incredibly somebody will take word.
2016-09-29 00:00:56 · answer #5 · answered by wiemer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just don't appear to be desperate otherwise you'll scare her...
you can open up to her when the right time comes...i really think that you should become close friends with her first.
2006-08-06 21:42:57 · answer #6 · answered by SKYE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋