well i've always been labeled as 'boy crazy', now all of a sudden im feeling a little more than 'friendly' towards this girl. i want to make out with her, even sex sounds appealing. but with other girls, the idea of touching them seems gross. its more, i want girls to touch ME. squeeze my boobs, touch my ***, maybe even give me some oral. so.....what is this???
2006-08-06 21:24:18 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know what - this is exactly how I am. Certain women just turn me on so I have been with more men than women but I have been with women and loved it - what an experience. I am with my current bf for over 4 years now but I am still attracted to the occasional female - but would never cheat on him and he knows this too so he laughs at me like I just saw you check her out etc.
I was also mostly the receiver - the girls I was with were gay - for the most part, some bi but they did mostly everything to me. I would kiss them and make out but as for anything lower, it was mostly me and they wanted it that way so I was fine with that.
Sometimes, it is not so much a sexual preference as it is an individual one - you are attracted to certain things and attributes in people and that is ok - that does not have to be limited or based on one gender. One of my best relationships was with a girl and she was actually my gf for over a year - it was great!
Don't feel odd about it or confused - this is totally normal and natural and it is great that you are comfortable enough with your own sexuality to realize this. Pursue it - you will not regret it and don't worry about "what you are" - gay, bi, straight, etc - just go by your feeling, that attraction you get when you see someone or hear them talk or whatever it may be that is making this girl appealing to you. It's great to know that - and accept it and try it.
I say great for you and that you will absolutely love the way it feels to be with another woman - and they know our bodies best you know. I was never into women and toys, etc either - I just liked the idea of a woman and woman - together just in that way and seriously - it may have been the best sex I have ever had. The women I have been with have turned me on almost more than every guy and I know I am not gay cause I feel the same way about the things like you said - but I am comfortable enough with me to know what I am attracted to and want and now and then I will notice a woman and something about it feels different than with a man - that attraction is so raw and intense ; it really is.
So - I do consider myself bi but it is a very rare, specific type of woman that I find myself so turned on by and attracted to.
Try to hang out with her, flirt a little and see where it goes. Have fun!! (and you will...that is for sure) =)
2006-08-06 21:36:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your experiencing normal curiousities... that doesnt make you a bisexual. It also doesnt mean your going to act on them. Sometimes when these sexual thoughts take place in the imagination they can feel exciting and appealing... but when its actually taking place sometimes you may act differently or feel uncomfortable. If it happens, it happens... and if you like it, you like it... and if you dont.. then oh well. The best thing to do is just be yourself and be happy with who you are. And if down the road you do become a bisexual... then all the power to you.
2006-08-07 04:38:07 · answer #2 · answered by Chicadee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to feel emotionally attatched to someone close to you. If things are going well and you hit it off while you're together and you share deepest darkest secrets, sure, physical feelings are going to take place. It doesn't make you bisexual. You maybe bicurious. Now, if you had these feelings before you met this friend of yours, then I'd say yes, you're bisexual. Just go with the flow. If your friend knows of your feelings and is ok with it, try it. If you turn out you like it, explore. Exploration is the key. Good luck!
2006-08-07 04:35:02 · answer #3 · answered by serenity78 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bisexuality is more open now then ever. I always was attracted to girls and was open to having sex with them but I never wanted to date them cause.. well women are crazy. Some think bi is being open to having sex with women or being open to love with women. You're curious and openminded and thats ok. My friend whos gay just had his first crush on a girl and wondered if he was bi but he just realized he just wanted to experiment. Nothing wrong with that. So i say maybe if theres a girl you know that is bi and would be open with kissing with you try it out.
2006-08-07 04:30:22 · answer #4 · answered by andthatshypocricy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like men and want to make love to another woman, then I would consider it bisexual... at least to some degree. If your wish with her came true...and you liked it...enough to do it again...then definitely so. If the experiment turned out not as appealing as you thought it would, maybe not. Then again, if later you felt similar to another woman...then for sure you are.
Before you give yourself a label give yourself more time to discover who you are first.
2006-08-07 04:36:02 · answer #5 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be Bi-Curious... That is you are attracted to men, but have a curiosity toward females... If the idea of actually indulging yourself with a female seems gross, you probably are not bi-sexual...
2006-08-07 04:31:52 · answer #6 · answered by eldertrouble 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,don't feel down it's OK.Personally sometimes I do the same thing like ohhh she would be so hot to make-out with her.So I think that in a certain state of life everybody thinks that question to themselves so it's ok.Your not the only one.
2006-08-07 04:35:39 · answer #7 · answered by .:AM:. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go and experiment if you want - try to find your sexuality - there is nothing wrong in finding out but be careful of your emotions I guess it would be easy to get confused! I am a totally straight man but would imagine that if you are bi you could have a lot of fun!!
2006-08-07 04:28:24 · answer #8 · answered by 1919 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like healthy curiosity. I think all girls go through this stage. I went through it during high school. I had the biggest crush on this girl. No other girls interested me like she did. I eventually got over it.
2006-08-07 04:30:31 · answer #9 · answered by I love my husband 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just confused, but I don't think you're a lesbian or bisexual... more bicurious. If you must, kiss a girl and see how you feel. Maybe after you kiss a girl, you'll see if it was just a curiosity or if it's something you want to further explore.
2006-08-07 04:28:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋