let my guard down with my current boyfriend, you said to do small things to help build up the trust with him. What small things did you do to help you trust your boyfriend? (Hope you read this) thanks.
2006-08-06 21:13:03 · 2 answers · asked by sultrysagittarius 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If there is no trust
Then there is no relationship
You can-not have a good relationship without trust
That is what relationships are based on
2006-08-06 21:26:27 · answer #1 · answered by itsa o 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That Starrlitskie, she's here one day, then MIA the next. Just like a few boyfriends I know.
In her absence, here are some small things to do to rebuild trust:
1. Express your personal boundaries and see that he respects them. Make sure he mirrors back to you that he understands what he must not do and what he must continue to do.
2. Keep your get togethers short and in public or with other people.
3. Plan fun activities that you both can both look forward to and enjoy.
4. Step up to movies, meals, or TV alone together - delaying the "physical stuff" until time and his actions have proven he has genuinely changed.
There is hope. It can happen.
2006-08-09 12:33:54 · answer #2 · answered by onemorealternative 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋