ive been with my boyfriend for eight months but the feelings that i had in the beginning are gone. I feel more attracted to other people. and i am wondering if its time for me to move on...
2006-08-06 21:02:39 · 20 answers · asked by jessie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. If you loved him, you wouldn't be attracted to other people more than him. There's no point in wasting time with someone you're not into.
2006-08-06 21:07:53 · answer #1 · answered by mytreacheryiseternal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont think that you could feel the same again, end it now so that you dont keep wasting your time with someone you're not really into. If youre just not totally sure yet, but you love your boyfriend but the spark has just gone, you could try having a week or two apart just to see if things change after you don't see him for a while, and if you still don't feel the same way then it's time to move on.
2006-08-07 04:10:39 · answer #2 · answered by idk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must decide for yourself if this person is someone you can see spending your life with, or if they would make a good parent to your children one day... these simple questions will tell you very quickley if you should stay with him or not. These things are why we are driven inside to date.
What ever you do, DO NOT AVOID THIS CONFLICT WHICH MAY RESULT, like so many people who are afraid of hurting by breaking up, or facing the question at all, who just start seeing other people behind the others back and lying to them... that hurts so much more in the long run. Just leave him and be decent to him if this is what you want to do. Don't cause him to mistreat or mistrust another after you, because of your actions. Be kind and like a friend simply explain why it is over and that he will only end up hurt if he stays with you. I wish you both the very best, whatever happens.
2006-08-07 04:10:29 · answer #3 · answered by Jeff B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That feeling of "bliss" will always fade over time. The person you end up settling down with should be the one that you can be great friends with and conversate with, not necessarily the one that makes your heart pound years down the road... relationships like that are seldom.
2006-08-07 04:08:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, or else it just gets worse for the both of you. I been in that situation and its horrible, i just wanted to get out from the second month on took me a while but when we ended it we both laughed about it.
2006-08-07 04:05:35 · answer #5 · answered by Chris P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes u should see OTHER people. too young to say he is the one and u already said Ur feeling for him is gone.. MOVE ON
2006-08-07 04:05:32 · answer #6 · answered by ek_is_jou_pa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely move on. Chances are if you feel this way, he does too or atleast notices you don't have the same affection you used to.
2006-08-07 04:06:46 · answer #7 · answered by jen12121980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not married. Time to move on if your feeling aren't there. Be fair to yourself and you boyfriend. Move on
2006-08-07 04:07:28 · answer #8 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is yr decision to make and no one elses. if you feel you dont like this person enough to stick with this relationship it would be better not to have im wasting his time. more on relationships and breakups in this article
2006-08-07 04:12:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that way, you should talk to your partner. Tell him how you feel and explain to him that you dont feel the same as you used to. He might actually feel the same way!
2006-08-07 04:24:29 · answer #10 · answered by Lexy v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋