there is this boy i think about all the time?

Question

he says he dont like me. but every thing he dose says he do. my best friend he hangs wit. says he likes me just wont say it. and i think that true be cuz at da beginnig of the school year he told a boy i was cute. is it normal to think about him and what we could have had every minute of the day. plus i cant decie weather i hate or love him. he hurt me and i hate him. but he is so my type i love him is it normal that i love him but sometimes fell like i hate him.

but my heart is steal open to other people
because i have i 2 bf since then

Answer 1

Let go and move on. It will make you feel better about yourself and open up your heart for someone who reciprocates your feelings in the future.

Answer 2

There can sometimes be a very thin line between love and hate. A lot of the time we feel as though we hate people because we had sincere feelings for them and they hurt us somehow, and therefore we don't really hate them at all, we just need something to cover up the pain that they made us feel, and its much easier to hate than it is to love. You may not love him, but you're definitely not thinking about him all the time because you hate him, if you truly hated him you wouldn't think of him at all because you would want absolutely nothing to do with him, so it is obvious that you have some kind of positive feelings for him. It is very likely that he really does have feelings for you, but its hard sometimes to admit to our feelings, especially for guys, hes probably just afraid of rejection, either from you, or from his friends because they think that you're not good enough for him. You should let him know that you are interested, and maybe not date or anything like that right away, but just hang out together with eachothers friends, and just be friends for awhile, and see where it goes. Eventually you'll either both come to realize that you would like to be together, or that you weren't nearly as interested in eachother as you thought. I hope this helps, and best wishes for your future with this boy.

Answer 3

I say don't pay any attention to him for a while and see what he does - sometimes they say they are not interested and they really are but are shy or nervous but they do those little things that tell you that they are.

If you stop paying attention to him - and he probably likes the attention, he may miss it and you and come to you - if he doesn't if may not be meant to be but don't worry - there are other boys.

Love and hate are two extreme emotions and when you get hurt when you care about someone it can feel like you hate them cause you r embarrassed and it is your heart that hurts - and that does hurt but you don't hate him. You like him so it hurts that he is not reciprocating that feeling directly to you. Try to think about some other things- don't let him just run your mind 24/7 cause that isn't healthy in case it doesn't work out or even if it did - yo need to have your own life and hobbies but yes it is normal to obsess a bit about guys we want to be with..

Try to focus on you, your friends, family and things you like to do for while and leave him be - ge may be taking you for granted and just expect you to keep liking him and paying attention to him so change it up - leave him alone and see what happens...he may not like that and come to you.

Play hard to get --- he is- now it is your turn~ =)

Answer 4

I think you resent him because he's either playing hard to get or leading you on... and he's not really making it very clear if you're ever going to be anything at all. I've been infatuated like that for more than a few months with some guys, but it's probably nothing like love (I'm married now to the only guy I've ever loved). Don't follow him around like a lost puppy... if you really want to see if he wants to make a move or not, be subtle. Smile at him and be nice to him but don't seek him out, give him just enough attention to make him come back around. He may just be a ladies man and play all of the girls.

Answer 5

That is WAY normal. If you really like da boy, give him time. He may jes be tryin to play hard to get. Or not. But dont put your life on hold. See other ppl and you may find someone else. And if you dont, you can still make some new friends.

I can help.... What ya number?? (Just kiddin)

Answer 6

That is totally normal. but he seems like a flirt. I think he's doing this just to feel empowered. and someone like that isn't worth your attention. you don't have to love or hate him. if he's been a jerk then just ignore him. no boys deserve to be agonized over

Answer 7

oh yeah he likes. hes a male. and based on what you are saying
hes the type that only cares about what he wants. and he is just mlike all the others who block good wemon cause of the they look and you dont sound ugly to me. i think you deserve better than him. dont waste your time on that trash if he is not going to admit his feelings it his loss. i bet you are good to your bfs. so dont sweat it hes just doing what everybody else is doing.

Answer 8

Are you sure he likes you?I do no think so. He told someone that you were cute, that's all. I think it's eye catching . not more
It's just the natural emotion. remember that, let your head lead your heart, not opposite.

Answer 9

i'm going through the same thing and a-men to the luv/hate thing but ask him out what do you got to lose? and hemight say yes because of how he feels

Answer 10

your so sweet..i had similar experience..it's strange to love somebody but at the same time to hate their guts because they hurt you..i hope it works out between you 2